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    juicysb3000 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Feb 10, 2006, 02:14 AM
    Friends?
    I had a friend for about 10 years I had let her stay with me whenever she didn't have anywhere to go. Anything she needed I gave it to her I also help her get this job that we are at. Well about a couple of years ago we meet up with this other girl and we all we real close with some of my other friends who stayed out of town and we all use to go out and do everything together it was cool during the time my friend that I have for 10 years broke up with her boyfriend and she came and stayed with me again when me and my boyfriend at the time broke up and everything was cool and not to long after that she got back with her boyfriend and I found someone else and he started he being with me all the time and all of a sudden she and the other girl got mad at me and all hell broke loose they came to work oneday and wouldn't say nothing to me so I went about my businesss and then oneday we got into it and after work and they were saying that I had said this and that about them and I didn't know what the hell was going on to make a long story short they both turn they back on me and I have no idea why. Anytime they need anything I was there so I never understand was they were so upset it has been almost a year now and I miss my friend that I had for 10 years but I don't know if I should consider talking back to her or letting it go we work at the same place and I'm about to go back to work after being off for about 6 months so when I go back should I try or not I don't know if I should trust them again what do think once a back stabber always a back stabber or what Help me out
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    Feb 10, 2006, 07:50 AM
    Hi, juicy,
    Ten years is a long time to have a friend, and get to know someone. I would talk with her and ask if we are still friends. If she doesn't tell you what is wrong, or want to talk about it, then at least you tried.
    I do wish you the very best of luck.

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