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    happy8802 Posts: 6, Reputation: 2
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    Sep 27, 2007, 03:40 AM
    How do I leave him
    I'VE been with this man for 10 years , I have 2 kids one from him one from my past

    We live as common law he makes me feel like a nobody he has hit me called me names

    I have lost my job because of him many times I want to leave but have no money to go

    Please help me what should I do ?:confused:
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    Sep 27, 2007, 03:44 AM
    Talk with him and tell him your Not happy and that you been thinking of moving... Don't JUST DO IT.. try to work it out.. if you did and still didn't work, then look to family and friends. Only answer you can look for.
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    Sep 27, 2007, 03:48 AM
    Do you have any family that you can go to? If this man is abusive to you its only time that he is going to do the same to your children. Ive been there and its not a pretty picture! Get out regardless of the situation. You're a mom and regardless if you feel weak or not right now somehow you will find the strangth to put one foot in front of the other. Go to your local social services and they can help you and your children to get a place to stay and money until you find a joba dn get on your feet. Don't put yourself and your children through the pain and the disstress any longer then you already have. And if he has put his hands on you did you call the police? If you haven't which I assume you haven't because I'm sure you are like the rest of us that have been in this situation, because you think it was going to be that one time and he will never do it again right? WRONG they don't change when they are that bad it only gets worse. I know personally. Fill out a report with the local police station so that way if you go to court you have proof that this man is abusive and unstable. Good luck to you, and to your family. Be safe.
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