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Dare81 · Jan 2, 2014, 03:23 AM

Update:

So after the movie, the next day she called me and we met again,for her birthday, I took her out to a restaurant and a secluded place with a nice view. Things were going okay. She still said she was still unsure.I left it at that.

We met again a couple of different times and it was normal again. I asked her what are we doing and how much time does she need, according to her she needs a month, I said I don't agree but let me think about it.

She asked me if I wanted to go to dinner with her friends, I said no, which made her upset.I was asked again the next day if I wanted to go with her friends the next day. I agreed. The dinner was okay. I ended up getting a ticket for speeding when she was in the car, freaked her out a little bit.

Since then she said she did not want to meet me anymore and wanted her time. I agreed.

So where we are now is, she has not called me for a day and I havenot tried contacting her.

From my perspective, she is having a hard time letting go, even though the relationship is over, and I am just along for the ride till she stops calling all togather. What should I do? So confused.

talaniman · Jan 2, 2014, 06:28 AM

Stop wasting your time on this. Heal properly and move on with your life.

odinn7 · Jan 2, 2014, 10:11 AM

What should you do? Give it up.

She keeps the contact with you as she is doing to alleviate her guilt...trying to make it easier on you. What it really is doing is making it harder for you to get over this.

Oliver2011 · Jan 2, 2014, 11:07 AM

Even though he can't move on, I am from this thread.

And I feel better about me for it.

Dare81 · Jan 2, 2014, 12:13 PM

I haven't called or sent any texts , she initiates them. Te reason I am not willing to let go is, I think there might still be a chance for us to get back together.

The reason why I am confused is, I cannot take the constant hold and cold thing, it messes with my head. One day she wants to meet, next day she wants her time and I agree.

Oliver20111 I can understand your frustration, but your help has been greatly appreciated.

odinn7 · Jan 2, 2014, 01:00 PM

And I told you why she does that...she's not the first one to do it and she won't be the last...let go before it drives you insane.