[cutie08]

I have this guy that I like a lot and I have liked his since last year. We had a thing back in April but we never went out. We would hangout all the time and stuff wed make out and stuff like that. And then one night my mom was supposed to give hima ride home but she got mad at me and my friend because we lied to her and decided she wasn't going to take him home. Well he thought it was my fault and got pissed at me and then we didn't talk for the longest time. Then on my birthday he said that he would give me a 2nd chance so then we talked on text for like a week, and then he stopped talking to me again. And so I gave up on him and I went out with this kid that was one of his old best friends.and we dated for a month but when ever he would see us together he would just stare at us and then he started taking to me again. And then after we broke up he started saying he liked me still and everything and I was just like OK. And now he wants me to give him head and stuff. And the other Friday at the game he called and was like hey baby I love you and blah blah blah. But the thing is he sounded kind of drunk so I don't know rather to believe him or not and he hasent told me loved me again since then so you I don't know. That's why I'm asking you for some help on what to do. Do you think that he really does still like me?? Do you think he's just using me for head ans stuff since he asks about it all the time

[CaptainForest]

Didn't you already post this problem in this thread: https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/showthread.php?t=21256

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[Chery]

IF this is the same guy you mentioned in the other thread, then you are not using your self-respect. Giving what you call 'head' is something that is done with couples who have a deep bond between them, and not just an on again, off again thing - and especially, if not married or having had an HIV test - never should be done without a condom. So, if you are lucky to not have caught something you will have to suffer the rest of your life for, leave him out to dry and find another patsy for his favorite past-time. He'll tell any girl how much he loves her because he does not know what love is - just what his little head feels. So think about it and make a mature and safe decision. You are still young, and should not get the reputation of someone to 'load' off on anything they say the magic words.

Kids in school age don't know the real meaning of love and everything that goes with it, it's a growing process between two people that mature together.

Again, tell him to go 'play doctor' with another patsy and keep your self-respect and dignity.

Good luck, and please keep us posted.

There is a big difference between LUST and LOVE - you'll find out the difference soon enough.

[fredg]

Hi, cutie,
You are being used.
It would be much, much better to make some new friends, and move on with your life. You will find someone who respects you, and cares for you... without asking you all this. I do wish you the best of luck.

[confuzed]

In my opinion, he is definitely using you. Go out with other people and stop seeing him. There will be someone who treats you well and you will see that he is most certainly not that someone. It doesn't sound like he is treating you well at all!