[nesba]

Hello guys, my situation here is she also has a boyfriend and I told her also what I feel for her. She told me that she has a special feelings for me but she also love her boyfriend. I ask her which of us loves her most but she said she don't know. We are actually going out sometime no sex involved.

How could I win her heart and then she leave her boyfriend? By the way, I have a wife but I don't love her anymore and a daughter but she knows my situation.

[odinn7]

Really? Am I reading this right? You want us to tell you how to handle this situation of cheating on your wife with someone that also has a boyfriend? Sorry, I need to say this... you're an idiot.

She's involved and so are you... you're just going to make a complete mess out of everything. Why not get divorced if you don't love your wife? Get divorced first and then... well, then find someone who is NOT already attached.

[talaniman]

Prove your love by example and divorce your wife, and then see how she acts. She may dump the guy she is cheating on and go with the guy she is cheating with. Or she may NOT!

[mystific]

You're a two faced, lying, deceitful and cowardly little man.

All you're doing is looking for an escape out of a marriage you're not man enough to own up too. So rather than facing the truth at home, you're hedging your bets with this girl who is already with someone, willing to jeopardize her relationship on the off chance to run away from your responsibility and isolate your daughter all because of something that 'could' happen.

Smart... real smart.