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    Jan 21, 2007, 08:04 PM
    Hello,
    Of course I agree with you. I simply have to end it with her. She gave me the same double talk as before. I knew my good intentions wouldn't matter. It's just the way I am ending it with her. I am ending it with her no matter what Good people. Thank you.
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    #22

    Jan 21, 2007, 08:32 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by jojoa1
    Hello,
    Of course I agree with you. I simply have to end it with her. She gave me the same double talk as before. I knew my good intentions wouldn't matter. It's just the way i am ending it with her. I am ending it with her no matter what Good people. Thank you.
    Please follow through and do that. In one year from now, if not sooner you'll look back and realize that it was the correct decision. Your sort of stuck in neutral. Throw it into drive and get out of there. When you get up the hill you'll look back and say, "I never want to go back."
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    #23

    Jan 25, 2007, 12:05 AM
    Hello Good People;

    I followed through and broke it off with her. As I said she is pregnant a little more thena month now and if she decides to keep baby I will give support. Of course if I am the father. Do you think she got pregnant on purpose. I remember her talking about wanting baby before she got pregnant but when I would ask her when she would like to get married she had no answers and even told me we don't have to. That raised flag, apparently not careful enough though. I mean she has no reason to do that on purpose, she is a nurse and makes much more money then I do. She can support child much much better then myself. When we were OK in the relationship she could have married me and get status anyway. Why play with pregnancy? I don't know what she was palying up to. Advice.
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    #24

    Jan 25, 2007, 05:41 AM
    <<Why play with pregnancy? I don't know what she was palying up to.>>

    I don't know what you are both playing at!! Why are you playing with pregnancy? Why didn't you use protection until you were sure you wanted a baby. This is a baby , a human being, not some object to be thrown around.
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    Jan 25, 2007, 07:44 AM
    Why play with pregnancy? I don't know what she was palying up to. Advice.
    First off, that attitude of blaming the female is erroneous and offensive to mature men and disrespectful to yourself because your saying you can do the deed with no responsibility, BS. You are responsible for passing life juice, and who you pass it to, and if the risk was good enough to take, its good enough to own up to. Sorry to rant I just hate it when so-called men sound like punks. Not putting you down, it just sounds like it to me. The only thing I can tell you is DNA TEST. Then go from there and if its yours be a dad in more than just name. You would not be the first to find out that a mistake had been made as to paternity. Nothing personal just business in this day and age.
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    Jan 26, 2007, 08:10 PM
    This girl wants her status in this country. You may love her but she came here with a mission and she has every intention on it happening. If she is willing to have your baby despite everything that is just another way of keeping herself here. smell the coffee honey!!!!!!!!

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