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    mamamisssesherbaby Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 13, 2007, 08:52 AM
    Should I leave him or should I stay
    We have been having troubles ever since our 2week old baby past away. He is going to jail again and I'm tired of him being here and then not. I have no money no job not a damn thing anymore. I love him to pieces but I want a man to be there for me when I need them to be.
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    Jul 13, 2007, 11:09 AM
    Hey. To Be Honest it sounds like you could do a whole lot better. If your boyfreinds is not supporting you in this most sad time then their isent much left to do but to pack his bags.
    The drinking could be down to emotional stress but using it as an exscuse is not an option at this stage. The sooner you get rid of him the sooner you can get your life on track.

    As evryone says just follow your heart and not your head :)

    Jodie x
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    Jul 13, 2007, 11:12 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by mamamisssesherbaby
    we have been having troubles ever since our 2week old baby past away. he is going to jail again and i'm tired of him being here and then not. i have no money no job not a damn thing anymore. I love him to pieces but i want a man to be there for me when i need them to be.
    Do what is best for you. Think about where this is going to go long term. Weigh the pros and cons out; I would personally write them down. You have a long hard road ahead of you and I wish the best for you. I'm sorry to hear about your newborn passing away. Hang in there.
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    Jul 14, 2007, 06:51 AM
    Do you have a support system? Use the time that he's in jail to pack up his crap, get yourself cleaned up, get a job, start taking care of yourself and move on from the "boy" who's only going to bring you down. Do it for yourself. You shouldn't have to live, worrying day to day, if this "boy" is going to be there for you or not. You need to be reassured that everything will be OK and that someone will be there for you thick and thin and it doesn't look like you'll ever get that from him. Get him out of your life completely and don't look back honey!
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