Should I have sex?

Unforgettable · #1 Oct 30, 2007, 12:51 PM

I met this guy and I'm not sure if I should sleep with him. I've only known him for about 2 months. what should I do.

MarkRealEstateConsultant · Oct 30, 2007, 01:11 PM

be cautious, be an adult, be safe.

statesgirl · Oct 30, 2007, 01:45 PM

i dont think your ready to have sex if you came on this site to ask. If you are ready you would have done it. If you are just be careful! You could get hurt by him (emoticonally) or regret it later.

atmisk · Oct 30, 2007, 03:18 PM

my advice would be wait a little longer to find out if hes the right person u should have sex with.

2 months isnt a really long time

Homegirl 50 · Oct 30, 2007, 03:42 PM

IMHO Unless you can look at a guy and say "yes, I can see myself with him in the long haul, yes I can see him as father to any kids I may have, yes, I've known him long enough and well enough that I'd trust my body and soul with him", don't give it up!
If you have to ask if you should, that's the first sign you shouldn't, and you don't really know this guy, that's the second sign.
Should you have sex with him? NO!

_Krissi_ · Oct 30, 2007, 03:49 PM

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Originally Posted by Unforgettable

I met this guy and I'm not sure if I should sleep with him. I've only known him for about 2 months. what should I do.

Since you are even questioning it,i dont think you really are ready for that.
Are you a virgin?

I think you should make sure the guy wouldnt leave you after that and
you have to be possitive that you really have feelings for him if its your first time.
You also should probably wait longer. Like Atmisk said 2 months is not a vry long time.

atmisk · Oct 30, 2007, 04:49 PM

don't him anything related to sex. if he does leave you because of that its all about sex. you are in no rush =) u still have a lot of time

statictable · Oct 30, 2007, 04:53 PM

If your not sure don't. You don't have to rationalize. You'll know when and who with when it happens.

kitty-kat19 · Oct 31, 2007, 06:43 PM

first of all two months isnt enough time to know whether or not you want to take that big of a step with them. second of all if you have to ask i'd say you already know the awnser.



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