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here's my problem:
i'm in the us army reserves and my unit has been called on active duty, now that i'm going to be leaving for a year my boyfriend wants to get married. i've been with my bf for going in 2yrs. and we know in our hearts that we want to spend the rest of our lives together. we were thinking about getting married in a few years!
Hi there!
My advice would be for u 2 wait until u return from duty and then get married. Long distance relationships are VERY hard to maintain/sustain. Believe me, I've been there!
There would be a lot of misunderstandings created because of the distance and u can't sort everything out thru phone/email. The 'waiting' partner can get very frustrated and misunderstood. U won't be able to cope with ur boyfrined's frustrations AND ur high pressure job! You'll both blow up one day and it could get really nasty from there.
So, dear, its better to wait, do your country proud and THEN come back and get married. Good Luck!
You should get married now! The bond of marriage will make you feel closer to each other, give you a sense of belonging, & help you to endure the long period of separation.
Strike while the iron is hot! 8)
I think you and your bf should have a nice long talk.
Its your life and you both need to sit down, be calm and discuss the whole thing out. Let both your ideas flow and tell each other whats in your hearts. maybe you will reach to the right decision like that.
no third person can tell you wether you should or should not, because it depends on both of you if you will be able to keep the relationship going...
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