Should I do anything for my ex's bday?

brkfstatiffs · #1 Mar 19, 2007, 05:01 PM

I recently got out of my first long term, live-in relationship. My ex and I are at the non communication point, in hopes that we can one day become friends again. We still communicate if need be via email or text to deal with things on the apartment. His birthday is coming up in a week. Do I send him a card or a simple phone call? Or ignore it all together? Honestly i'd like to take him out to lunch for it or dinner, but i figure that won't be a good move at this point. If it was my birthday, I think I would want him to reach out. Suggestions?

Lowtax4eva · Mar 19, 2007, 05:26 PM

I would say if your not really communicating dont do anything spectacular, maybe send an email. It also depends who ended it and how, if he ended it unexpectedly then dont do anything.

Fancy231 · Mar 19, 2007, 05:35 PM

Yes.Because you guys used to be lovers.



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