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Should I contact my ex

Asked Jun 25, 2012, 09:41 PM — 35 Answers
So... My ex broke up with me about 4 months ago and haven't heard from her since. She defriended me on facebook and i haven't contacted her either to try and do the no contact thing. Yet, I still think about her everyday and just keep saying damnit that i lost her. Do you think if i contact her i have a shot of getting back with her or at least being friends? if so how should i go about that? or should i just leave it be and keep trying to move on.

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Jul 5, 2012, 08:12 AM
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so my ex dumpped me over email after we went out for 3 years and she said that i was the one and that she wanted to marry me blah blah blah. any tips to make this break up the hardest on her than ever because it hurt me so much. oh by the way she started dating a guy that i told her was chasing her for 2 years.

Revenge is ugly - and makes you an ugly person.
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Jul 5, 2012, 08:55 AM
Good Grief! The more I read here the more I wonder if we're being trolled. Honestly.

If you're looking for advice then move on. I do realize we all have our moments of weakness, I have looked up exes on facebook too, but for the love of Pete let it go! On again/off again will always be that.

As for looks. All in the eyes of the beholder. Just be confident. That will be far more attractive than a six pack and a spray on tan. You seem the sort for sporting a spray on tan.

Chill out. Really. You will find someone, or someone will find you. You will scare a good number of people away with what you're doing now. The people you will get will probably be more of the same.
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Jul 5, 2012, 08:56 AM
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Good Grief! The more I read here the more I wonder if we're being trolled. Honestly.

If you're looking for advice then move on. I do realize we all have our moments of weakness, I have looked up exes on facebook too, but for the love of Pete let it go! On again/off again will always be that.

As for looks. All in the eyes of the beholder. Just be confident. That will be far more attractive than a six pack and a spray on tan. You seem the sort for sporting a spray on tan.

Chill out. Really. You will find someone, or someone will find you. You will scare a good number of people away with what you're doing now. The people you will get will probably be more of the same.

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Jul 5, 2012, 09:40 AM
Personally...I think the OP really needs to consider taking an oath of lifetime celibacy.....or cut his own boy parts off.
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Jul 5, 2012, 10:23 AM
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The perspective of vanity most common amoung the young..where whats outside matters more than whats inside.
I think you may have misunderstood my comment. I was simply disagreeing with the assessment that he is vain. One would have to be insecure to be continually seeking affirmation from strangers.
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Jul 5, 2012, 10:40 AM
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I think you may have misunderstood my comment. I was simply disagreeing with the assessment that he is vain. One would have to be insecure to be continually seeking affirmation from strangers.
I can accept that clarification....Thanks for giving it.
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