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Should I Assume He's Already Blowing Me Off?
Asked Dec 18, 2008, 01:18 PM
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65 Answers I met a new guy through a mutual friend, only went out with him twice so far. Monday night was the last time we saw each other and things went really good, had great conversation, laughed, it was just a fun time. After we parted ways that night, he texted me asking if I got home safe. I told him yes & thank you for the great time. He then replied saying that he had a great time and can't wait to see me again and that he would text me the following day. Didn't hear from him so I just shot him a quick text Tuesday night. It took him over 5 hours to respond and this was what he said, "Sorry just got your message. I've been so busy!" I knew he was leaving out of state tonight for a big sports event he's been training really hard for. So I replied telling him not to worry if I don't see or hear from him by then, that I wish him luck on the event. Never did hear back from him. I know he comes back Sunday. Think I could possibly hear from him again or should I assume that last message of his is a hint that he's not interested anymore? |
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| Nah... Just give it time... Don't send him a txt message yet... Just wait till like sunday night or something, and if you don't hear from him by then, send him a casual message to ask about the event... See if he replies, but you got to expect it'll take time again, because he may be tired... So relax, chill, and don't assume anything... | ||||
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| Thank you so much! I think that if I don't hear from him then I will take your suggestion, BlackVY, and text him Sunday night just to ask how it went. I guess it's all I can do right? And if he still doesn't seem interested by next week, then I'm sure it's safe to assume he's already over it. I just wonder why guys do this? They seem SO interested, even after the date they will text you, see if you got home safe, tell you how they had a great time with you and can't wait to see you again... Then they disappear on you. | ||||
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| A few reasons why a guy would do this... Maybe he was excited about the date and it went well and he enjoyed himself, but later, he may have doubts or worries or thoughts, or other people might say stuff... It does depend on the individual. I don't know too many guys who disappear after the first date, because its too soon to tell. I know some guys who second guess things after a few dates, or some guys who tend to mellow out when they know they got the girl... But again, depends on the person... Just take your time... Be happy... See how it goes and don't get too strung up on this guy just yet... | ||||
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| Yeah, it just caught me off guard because Monday was actually our second date. We went out Sunday night and it went well, he wanted to see me again Monday, that went well too. Maybe he is second guessing... Not sure what the deal is, but I'll see what happens next week. | ||||
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| Neva know wit some people... And if he is second guessing, then let him... You'd rather have someone sure about his feelings than someone who is hot sometimes or cold sometimes, depending on other people, his mood, or even the weather... Hehe... Love bi-polar... Lol  | ||||
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| Haha... Yeah...that is a good song... But it applies to a lot of people, and I know a lot of people can relate to it... Because people are people, and not everyone is sure of what they are doing and what they want... Even we may think we know, but how can we be really sure... Basically, when your in love, you know for sure... And your heart agrees with your head... So the only cure for love bi-polar is finding your true love... Lol | ||||
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