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I have a bit of a problem, im 18 and my friends sister of 14 likes me and wants to have sex. she says she's ready and really likes me. Should I have sex with her?
No way. Don't do it! I don't care how mature she seems or how much she says she wants it, don't do it! She's way too young. Is it worth going to jail for? I don't think so. Find someone your own age. There's a much bigger difference between 14 and 18, then say 18 and 22. Don't do something you'll both probably regret.
Do you like the idea of having a new boyfriend named BUBBA when they lock you up in prison for rape ??? You can be very popular, they do really life child molestors in prison.
Of course not, first, she has no idea if she is ready or not, and she is not, 14 year olds are not old enough.
an 18 year old as far as i know is statitory rape ANYWHERE with anyone under 17 (18 in some states)... i could be wrong but i dont think so. So no, you shouldnt.
oh my bad then, still at 14 no one is mature enought o handle the responsabilities, and/or consequences of having sex. She may think she wants to, but you need to show more maturity and decline. Wait. Show that you DO care. She may not be happy about it now, but someday she will look back and think fondly of you that you said no.
Where do you live? If its not illegal there, it should be. Yes, look back through history and people were getting married and having sex at 14. That was when the average lifespan of people was 30 years not 80 years! Look back through history and you'll see a lot of things that happened that were an awful dea (ie. slavery, oppression, genocide, etc.). Just because something used to happen doesn't mean its right. Welcome to the 21st century. The world and people and especially the rate at which we as people mature has changed drastically over the past 100 years.
Were you really expecting for people to tell you to "go for it"?
Ok, so forget about the age difference. Its still a really really awful idea. What if things don't work out and you still have to see each other around because she's your friends sister. What if afterwards she regrets it (which we as girls usually do after the first time)? Is it worth also losing a friend over? Wait a couple of years until she's atleast 16!
so she's a friends sister big deal, whats she gunna do bug me if it goes bad for her? And the age difference thing isnt as bad as others like 40 year old guys marry 20 year olds
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