my girlfriend told me today that she wanted to take a break to find herself. she even said that she kinda likes some other guy but i asked her and she said she would not do anything with him. should i trust her?

Clough

Have you asked her if she would like to date the other guy? If you haven't, I would ask her that. If you really trust each other, then the communication and intents should be totally out in the open - honest and forthright.

kaine

she promised and swore on my life that she wouldnt hook up with him and that she didnt want to go out with him. but its still hard to believe that shes gonna be faithful to me.

Clough

I would "lay it on the line" to her as to how much you really trust her. That is, that you really do, and that if she still wants a relationship with you, that you will still be there for her.

How old are you and how old is she? I ask this because it plays an important part as to the levels of commitment that people will make as far as relationships. The commitment level will vary depending on the age of the person.

AKaeTrue

Never a good idea to have someone swear on your life dude, especially if you're questioning whether you can trust her or not...

But on a more serious note, I agree with clough that you need to discuss your feelings about the trust issues.

mckenzie134

As soon as she mentioned the other guy bro pack her bags!

There aint enough love in the world for that!!!

Who wants agirls whos not that into you!!!

You better wake up before she starts throwing dog biscuits at you and puts you on a leash....

Lucky you found this out now before you were together to long... R u ging to be a wuss and let a girl treay you like this orgrow some balls and take control!!

Girls love a guy in control, yopur girl ever talks about how she like some other guy thats fine shes out... If she was into you shewouldnt wven be thinking about anotherguy..

Dontever sweat the competition mate cause if she loves you there aint aby competiotion and if there ever is ther shouldnt be ....

Firstly next time you speak to her tell her the breaks for the best sinceshe mentioned this guy your not that interesetd in girls like that!!!!! Ones that talk about likng other guys im not into them so its for te best!!!

Dont be afraid to lose her if shes going shes going anyway..

Think about it this way there is no way youcan stop herfrom seeing this guy and to tell you from experience she is either seeing him or thinking about itand swearing on someones life HAHAHA Yourgunna learn the hard way bro THATS A LIE!!!!!! BIG LIE If she wants this guy she will go to him swearing or not!!!! Thats for sure...

So what you need to do, Get tough tell gher what i told you and let herno your not standing for that, if she really wants you she will come running, this works you get your answer straight!!!