Ok you have probably read some of my other threads. To start with we texted each other alot, then a few days after the second date, the number of text she sent dropped almost stopped. Which she said was because she was busy. i will sometimes text her, but have now started to leave it untill to she sends me one (usually a reply to the last message). When she does send me a text, if im with my phone ill reply straight away, but then it can take her anything from 1 hour to 3 hours to reply.
one time she asked me what i was upto at work, to which i replied straight, she sent another back soon after, then nothing from the reply i sent, about 90mins later she sent one saying 'yes im ignoring you hehehee....' then replying to the message i sent.
If were on msn at the same time she will start a conversation. Yes we do chat on the phone aswell lol.
I just dont know if this her playing to get, or quite what it is?
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Is this your girlfriend?
Either way when she texts you do not text her back right away. Let it go for awhile.
If she doesn't texted you back don't ask her about it, because when you do she knows that it bothers you and you get responses like, "yes I'm ignoring you...heheheheeeee."
If I was on her side of things I'd be starting to find you a bit weird if you've only been out on two dates and your telling her her texting speeds are not up to your standards!?!
Text messaging is fun. Text messaging is addicting. It's fast and totally cool.
But... it, along with facebook, im, and myspace, are the greatest detriments to REAL relationships of the 21st century.
I keep my phone with me at all times and instantly answer pretty much ever text I get. Except when I'm in a meeting, or eating with friends, or in the middle of a project.
She could be really busy. She could be ignoring you.
Bottom line, stop relying on texting so much and give the girl a call. Ask her for coffee. Go from there.
Don't be the run-of-the-mill guy. Be different. Avoid machine gun texts and think outside of the box.
Text messaging is fun. Text messaging is addicting. It's fast and totally cool.
But... it, along with facebook, im, and myspace, are the greatest detriments to REAL relationships of the 21st century.
I keep my phone with me at all times and instantly answer pretty much ever text I get. Except when I'm in a meeting, or eating with friends, or in the middle of a project.
She could be really busy. She could be ignoring you.
Bottom line, stop relying on texting so much and give the girl a call. Ask her for coffee. Go from there.
Don't be the run-of-the-mill guy. Be different. Avoid machine gun texts and think outside of the box.
But it's so hard! They make the keyboard so friendly for my thumbs, I text everyone. It's an addiction, I need help. I'm going to get help, I'm going to go text the help number now
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