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ok well im 20 and my ex is 22. i lived with her for 2 years the past 4 months she keep telling me she didnt love me anymore and that she was depressed every time she was around me. this shook me up and made me think GOD i could lose this girl i bin bin for 2 years .and every day almost anything i did little or small she would have a fit and say at the end of the argument I DONT WANT U I DONT LOVE U Y WONT U GET THE HINT after that i always beged her 2 let me try and make her fall in love with me again ill try harder work at it . but everything went down hill she didnt let me cuddle her kiss her and sex was a defo nONO i tryed everything and yes every time i beged her bk to let me try and make her happy she sed FINE U CAN TRY BUT I DONT THINK IT WILL WORK. that same word every week. but what i dont understand is whill letting me try she did now and again sit next to me and put her feet up on me and kiss me goodbye when she left.. i mean how can u do that 2 some 1. so it came to my birthday my 20th birthday on the 21st of october me and 3 of my mates was in ym house drinking my ex was there 2 and all night she was sitting next to my mate and i mean 2 close she migth as well bin sitting on his face. so i started to get fired up then i thort no i wont i dont want this to get spoiled. so all night she was talking to ym friend and i stayed awake cuz i didnt trust this 1 bit and at 6:30am she sed she is going to get fags with my mate at the shop round the couner. i waited and she never came bk so all sorts rand threw my head like she is with him and that so me and my other friends wemnt round that guys house who she left with and we went in his house and nope he sed he would never do anything with my g/f so i was worried woundering were she is and didnt take till 9 pm that night i got hold of her she saying i had no opsition but to dissapire just get ya stuff and go home we are not together no more... she was at her friends house.. i asked her if they was any one eles but she sed no...i asked her y she was all ova my mate she sed sorry i was bang out of order doing that ...when we first got to gether i would of never thort she would of done this 2 me but she sed she dont normaly do things like that but her heads so messed up she doing things she would never normaly do. so i moved bk home and 5 days later i rang her up asking if she still feals the same.. and yes she does she sed she feals lots better and she feals free...how can u just be so heartless to some one u spent every night with for 2 years.. i asked her if she even thinks about me she sed that i hardly even crossed her mind since we broke and told me to delt her number and not call again??? she sed i dont want to get bk with u cuz ill be depressed again.. and if she did she sed she would prob cheat on me and have 500 other b/f its that bad she sed... that broke my heart so badly now i carnt eat or sleep or even think of anything eles what shall i do now ring her and fight for her bk or what... does she still think about me.... does she care.... whats going threw her head i mean yyyyy
Sorry Bud but this girl isn't in her head right now!
I cannot imagine her saying and doing those things to you on purpose, unless she really is evil. Perhaps she needs a break and some help y'know, either way there is NO WAY you or anyone should ever have another person behave like that, especially when feeling and Love are involved. I f you contact her she will just continue to screw in the nails, let herbe and hope she either seeks help or regains her senses.
i mean she ant evil or anything but how can you say them things to some one you bin with i could never do that to anybody not even my worste enemy... is it me or her or both i really just dont understand
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I don't think it's you. I mean what have you done other than be there for her? The thing that gets me is the fact that while you are down she steps on you, I know you must love her but really you gotta stand up and say thats enough, maybe then she'll see what she is doing.
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