| is he just out to hurt me? ok. well if youve read my other posts you wil see the history. basically its been one thing after another. he split with me in september and within two weeks was hinting that he wanted to get back with me. i didnt read it like that and thought he was happy to be rid of me. anyway the week after he told me that he missed me and wanted me back, that he would put 110% into it etc anyway i fell for it and went to see him. it was awkward but ok and seemed to be getting on better. only thing is i didnt actually say we was back together. well i asked him after a week if we was actually together. he replied that he thought so. i said ok thinking we was working things out. then he suggested we 'just see how things go'. this didnt please me and after i asked why all he said was that he couldnt commit to be at that time and didnt want to hurt me again. i just left it at that. we saw each other the next week as we went bowling. then randomly talking online and he just said it isnt working and its over and went offline. well that was the sunday and he was meant to be staying at mine the following week. obviously didnt happen. he stayed at his brothers and was out drinking most of the time. i had to find this out from the same 'friend' that was and still is interferring. this week he decided to speak to me. we have not mentioned the split or anything. one minute he is ok hun, kisses, hugs etc and next hes cutting me off and putting titles such as ' i believe dreams come true, one just has, kelly, kelly, kelly' and has put a display picture of him with his arm around another lass. its only been about 10 days. whys he acting like before one minute then putting things like that? or is he out to hurt me? any ideas why he is doing this and what should i do. no contact isnt good for me but i do make sure he is the one to make contact. do you think he has seriously moved on and if so why would he put it in my face like that? any suggests much appriciated. |