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Old Jun 16, 2007, 02:12 PM
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She is answering my calls, but not following thru

Hey All,


Am I not seeing the writing on the wall? Or is she genuinely confused? My ex (3 weeks now) told me the other day on the phone that she'd try to see me before she leaves for europe with work. She didn't call me, and I don't know if she's just being polite. Yet she
said, "oh, we should see this movie with our friend" sometime...so it's not like she won't take my calls....so my question? is she still interested if she is returning calls, or taking them...and she is going to europe next week for business, will this help her to miss me?
I haven't reached out to her since the other day, so as not to be needy...i know that is what i am...but how do I get her to come back? is it best to hold out and not call her?
girls what do you think?? she's 27, I'm 39 and I feel like a crazy kid...or should i just let it go?

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You didn't mention her leaving in your other post. How long have you known and when will she be back????????
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Hey Talaniman

I forgot to mention that....I knew she was leaving for the last 3 weeks, and she'll be back the following monday...1 week in all....she isn't a cheater, nor does she party too much..
i wonder if the trip will prompt her to think of me...i haven't called her since friday just
to keep myself respectful in her eyes...i know she would call if she wanted to see me,
but if I call her, it'll make me look needy!! what do I do?
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Leave a message and go about your business.
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Old Jun 17, 2007, 06:05 AM   #5  
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How long have you 2 been together and dont call!!! doesntmatter what you do you will look nedy, what areyou going to say in this call anyway. You said your EX , if this is the case then why areyou letting her see you before she leaves. You know ehy you think this will help you IT WONT MATE!!!

If she dumped you then dont let her walk in and out of your life, give her what she wanted you out of her life!!! Let her know what it is like to not have you, dont mope around although you will dont let her know your there for her, if she calls be busy to busy for her now she has all the control saying she will try and see you before she goes, she knows she has you by the balls!! Saying she will try, you dont want her to try if she dumped you then you have to show her this aint a game she cant do that no dimping you and trying to drag you along, Stad up for yourself or shes gone champ... No CALLS NO NOTHIN YOUR NOT NEEDING HER . You wanted to let her be part of your life you love her she knows tht but your not an idiot she canttake you for grantedthat you will always be there.

NO girl wants someone whos EASY so NO TALKING become unavailable and she will latch back on when she ges back, and yes she will miss you if she doesnt see you before shes gone...Let her wonder what your up too, have you moved on are you having a good time are you meeting people!!!!!! She will be back in your life as soon as she thinks your moving on witghout her, so do it. Well you probly wont really move on but at least pretend you are by not speaking to her this will vreayte the fact that you are and thats your best hope for now. NO TALKING...
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With these kinda people who just lead you on and can't be straight with their attitude, I would simply not bother about them, they don't deserve my attention until they start behaving themselves...

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