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when u are in love with one another and trust each other as well in a relationship, should u feel offended if ur significant other says that he doesnt want to give u his information like his online passwords and his online cell statement password? he says that he doesnt wanna give it because thats all im basing the relationship on which is totally not true. it wasnt as if he never gave it to me btw. at one point i had all this information but now he just thinks its not important for me to have it. what do u think i should do? fight for it some more or just let it go?
he says its cuz im basing it only on passwords when thts not it. i want it cuz i love him and i want to have it. im not basing the relationship on any pw just that i want to see what hes doign and who he talks to for the hell of it. even tho i know the ppl in his life.
When you are in a relationship why should there be secrets? I am not saying that you have to disclose your entire past. But the things that you do on a day to day basis why hide? Unless your trying to be a control freak, play mind games or are cheating or thinking about it
i disagree, some people need privacy - for example, you might want to talk to a friend about your relationship, you should trust him you shouldnt need to have his passwords to prove that
hmm yes true. i dont know, my ex never liked me having his passwords, i trusted him and i dont believe he ever did anything, its just that he liked to have some things just for him which i had to respect.
Thats a real tricky situation, it sounds really shady to me. It sounds like he is hinding something from you, because if you had all his passwords befor why would he of changed them? Did he give them to you befor or did you figure them out? It sounds really shady to me i would deff look into it some more if i were you.
ah see i disagree, i wouldnt want my aprtner reading EVERYTHING i wrote, i might have written something about him, i might have had a down day and not been sure about stuff and not wanted him to read it, i think its healthy to have a bit of stuff thats just for you. if you NEED to have access to every area of your partners life and cant trust them witout it then thats ridiculous.
Saying that, i would ask his reasons for giving the info to you in the beginning and why not now.