Seeing my ex @ 11:30

crushedovernover · Nov 20, 2007, 04:11 AM

My ex and I have not spoken since the split. We have a son together, were both 25. I have to goto a case conference today to see her. I have had NC since the split and I do not really want to see her. I dont even want to look at her. All of my girlfriends tell me just act like nothing bothers me and that wil get to her. Help lol. I really dont want to have to see her.

BMI · Nov 21, 2007, 07:55 AM

I hate to spoil such a fine party and i know you must feel great the way it played out, but perhaps you should re-read the quote at the bottom of your box.........pray for her and wish her the best cause we are all in this boat together

crushedovernover · Nov 21, 2007, 03:35 PM

The look she gave me almost looked like she was heartbroken..

s_cianci · Nov 21, 2007, 03:53 PM

I don't blame you for not wanting to see her but it sounds like you have no choice in the matter unless you want to risk contempt of court and a possible default judgement against you and/or an arrest warrant. I'd take the advice that your girlfriends are giving you. Act totaly indifferent to her as though she's a stranger. She'll be a lot more bothered by it than you are.

crushedovernover · Nov 21, 2007, 07:05 PM

Well here is a great peice of inFO. If anyone knows my story then here it goes, ex cheated on me in the end of july or mabe who knows how long. We broke up in the end of july, we have a 2 yr old son and I just found out that she is engaged to this guy who lives in florida and she lives in ontario for now. A far as I know they have known each other since july, Aug,sept,oct,nov and there are freaking engaged. . . Im sorry but this just blows my mind. Talk about set back, i was trying to work threw all of my stuff and now this..............................

jasmine_rezzag · Nov 21, 2007, 10:27 PM

I don't know what happened between you two guys,but it seems you did a great job! you know after i decided to leave my ex,i never talk with him,never show him my care,never show him my feeling,no text messages......nothing! and that was really a shoot to him! he still does not believe i could be so "cruel" to him,he still keeps telling others i still love him...... i feel a little happy like what you feel now!hahaha......



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