Second Date Ideas

confused25 · #1 Jan 7, 2007, 10:38 AM

Hey Ya'll,

Well I'd like to begin by thanking you all for taking the time to help people on this site. It is very much appreciated.

So the question is pretty straightforward, what are some good second date ideas? Our first date was a coffee shop and we had a lot of fun. I'm trying to think of something fun where we can both get to know eachother and there is no pressure. Also, I want to be unique from the other guys she's probably dating, something that will make me stand above the rest. And if possible, something not too expensive. Any ideas?

Ace High · Jan 7, 2007, 10:45 AM

Hi Confused25,

If she is a health nut, how about trying those indoor rock-climbing places. I have always found those to be fun. Or if she is more of the intellectual type, check into the unique museums in your area. --- Ace

Ace High · Jan 7, 2007, 10:46 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by confused25

Hey Ya'll,

Well I'd like to begin by thanking you all for taking the time to help people on this site. It is very much appreciated.

So the question is pretty straightforward, what are some good second date ideas? Our first date was a coffee shop and we had a lot of fun. I'm trying to think of something fun where we can both get to know eachother and there is no pressure. Also, I want to be unique from the other guys she's probably dating, something that will make me stand above the rest. And if possible, something not too expensive. Any ideas?

I forgot to add that I agree with you about the great advice that you will find on this site. -- Ace

ForeverZero · Jan 7, 2007, 11:14 AM

Personally, i save the rock climbing and things like that for after you're a couple. I'm of the mindset that when i'm dating somebody, i'm trying to get to know them. Going rock climbing is more of a distraction from your day. I'd take her shopping to the mall or something like that. It'll give you good insight into the kind of girl she is, the types of clothes the wears, and more importantly, what sorts of things she likes on a guy. Don't let her pay for anything, and make sure you trade up that velcro wallet with the duck on it for a nice leather one.

Skell · Jan 7, 2007, 04:37 PM

Im in for fun things. Especially early on. You have to have a good laugh and lots of fun and then she wont be able to wait for the next time she see's you.

Soemthing like indoor rock climbing can be good, but that may be a bit hard if she isnt the most physical type.

Horse riding can be a nice day out in the country. Not sure where you are but i know it can be a nice day. Go karts, mini putt golf etc. can also be fun for a date and a good way to get to know the real person.

Sitting down to a dinner and movie all the time can get boring and repetitive.

As i said, im all for as much fun as possible early in dating. Plenty of laughs is always a good way of pushing the right buttons!

chuff · Jan 7, 2007, 05:21 PM

Take her to a comedy club. She laugh and associate those good laughs with you.

confused25 · Jan 8, 2007, 09:38 PM

Thanks for the advice everyone! I now have ideas not only for a second date, but also a third, fourth, and fifth. Much appreciated!

Wildcat21 · Jan 9, 2007, 10:09 AM

Yep the comedy club is great - ace in the hole.

Musseums are - in Chicago my ace i nthe hole the Musseum of contemprary art.

Rock is great s well. Done that. My gym has a 7 story wall. It's pretty awesome.

Ice skating is fun depending on where you live. In Chicago we have a great outdoor rink.

Movies are a bad idea. Real bad - maybe after like 3 months.



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