Ask Experts Questions for FREE Help!
  Advanced
Register  |  Log in  
   Ask    
 Answer  
  Help  

Ask QuestionsprogressAnswer QuestionsprogressBuild ReputationprogressBecome an Expert
 
Free Answers in 3 Easy Steps

Register Now
3 Steps

At Ask Me Help Desk you can ask questions in any topic and have them answered for free by our experts. To ask questions or participate in answering them you must register for a free account. By registering you will be able to:
  • Get free answers from experts in any of our 300+ topics.
  • Accept money for answers that you provide.
  • Communicate privately with other members (PM).
  • See fewer ads.

Home > Family & People > Relationships   »   Second Chances.

Answer this Question
Ask about Relationships
 
Question Tools Search this Question Display Modes
Question
 
 
#1  
Old Apr 22, 2007, 03:54 PM
niniback
New Member
niniback is offline
 
Join Date: Apr 2007
Posts: 6
niniback See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.
Second Chances.

Hi all,

I was wondering if we can tell stories about our experiences with giving your partner a 'second chance'.

What made you decide to give it a second chance.
How it went.
Did it work out the second time around.

And finally...
Would you do it again?

Reply With Quote
 
     

Answers
 
 
Old Apr 23, 2007, 03:28 AM   #2  
Jiser
Ultra Member
Jiser is offline
 
Jiser's Avatar
 
Join Date: Feb 2007
Location: England - Bournemouth
Posts: 1,129
Jiser See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.Jiser See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.Jiser See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.
Gave her two chances. ;] No it didn't work out and yes I would give her another chance. However I would take it so slow as Ive learn t from everything I did wrong. I think I would like to be friends with her for a while if she would be willing. But hey were see, quite happy as I am allthough miss my ex alot.

LoveShack.org: Interpersonal Relationship Advice and Assistance Center - Love and dating advice, platonic relationships, and more. has a second chances dedicated forum - u may want to check it out.

My cousin split up with his gf at 18/19 went there separate ways due to boredom in the relationship etc. Few years later they got back together and have been together ever since 10 years now. My auntie and uncle were child hood sweethearts, they married 30 years later after being both married before. Anything can happen, just work on yourself, don't try to analyze things so much and enjoy life - be that fun bubbly person you know you are!!!
  Reply With Quote
 
     
 
 
Old Apr 23, 2007, 03:57 AM   #3  
Tuscany
Ultra Member
Tuscany is offline
 
Tuscany's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2006
Location: Hugging my teddy bear
Posts: 1,859
Tuscany See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.Tuscany See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.Tuscany See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.
I gave my old boyfriend a second chance, no it did not work . BUT because I gave him a second chance I spent more time with my now husband. So, yes I guess it did work out
  Reply With Quote
 
     
 
 
Old Apr 23, 2007, 04:25 AM   #4  
talaniman
Relationship Expert
talaniman is offline
 
talaniman's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Space Is The Place
Posts: 13,593
talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.
Never had a second chance. I always moved on until I got married. Why go back?

Comments on this post
Jiser agrees: lol, try, try again untill you suceed.
  Reply With Quote
 
     
 
 
Old Apr 23, 2007, 05:56 AM   #5  
talaniman
Relationship Expert
talaniman is offline
 
talaniman's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Space Is The Place
Posts: 13,593
talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.
Jiser agrees: lol, try, try again untill you suceed.

My wife won't let me.
  Reply With Quote
 
     
 
 
Old Apr 23, 2007, 06:40 AM   #6  
ForeverZero
Full Member
ForeverZero is offline
 
Join Date: Dec 2006
Posts: 290
ForeverZero See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.
Quote:
Originally Posted by talaniman
Jiser agrees: lol, try, try again untill you suceed.

My wife won't let me.


Secretly, tal is just a big girl!
  Reply With Quote
 
     
 
 
Old Apr 23, 2007, 07:36 AM   #7  
talaniman
Relationship Expert
talaniman is offline
 
talaniman's Avatar
 
Join Date: Nov 2005
Location: Space Is The Place
Posts: 13,593
talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.talaniman See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.
Quote:
Originally Posted by ForeverZero
Secretly, tal is just a big girl!

The hairy chest gave it away?
  Reply With Quote
 
     
 
 
Old Apr 24, 2007, 10:59 AM   #8  
SAB123
Senior Member
SAB123 is offline
 
Join Date: Mar 2007
Location: Illinois
Posts: 579
SAB123 See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.
Gave her 5 chances and no it didn't work.(Thank God)
  Reply With Quote
 
     
 
 
Old Apr 24, 2007, 12:19 PM   #9  
angelbabe1759
New Member
angelbabe1759 is offline
 
Join Date: Apr 2007
Posts: 2
angelbabe1759 See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.
Quote:
Originally Posted by niniback
Hi all,

I was wondering if we can tell stories about our experiences with giving your partner a 'second chance'.

What made you decide to give it a second chance.
How it went.
Did it work out the second time around.

And finally...
Would you do it again?
i think everyone deserves a second chance, me and my ex dated for a while and he did something horrible, he cheated on me but he was drunk and said if i take him back he will quit drinking and will never do anything to impar his judgement or our love again so yes, i took him back, i know it says ex, well about a month later he died so ... please give chances maybe even 3rd and 4th
  Reply With Quote
 
     
 
 
Old Apr 24, 2007, 12:22 PM   #10  
startover22
Ultra Member
startover22 is offline
 
startover22's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2007
Location: I smell fresh baked bread!
Posts: 7,963
startover22 See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.startover22 See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.startover22 See this member's comment history on his/her Profile page.
I was given a second change, 11 years later we are still together and have a pretty good life together with our four kids. If it weren't for my husbands big heart and morals, who knows who I would be today. I love him for my second chance. I guess it all boils down to changing your "path". I didn't get it until I was all the way down under the water and he brought me back to the top to breath. If you feel like it is worth it, then do it. Give someone a chance. Or two.
  Reply With Quote
 
     
Answer this Question
Ask about Relationships


Question Tools Search this Question
Search this Question:

Advanced Search
Display Modes

 
Similar Sponsors

Similar Questions
Question Asker Topic Answers Last Post
What are my chances? sad but true Family Law 13 May 8, 2007 05:09 PM
What could this be and what are my chances? i12bmenhappy Pregnancy & New Motherhood 0 Apr 12, 2007 05:55 AM
what are the chances dudeneedshelp Pregnancy & New Motherhood 11 Apr 2, 2007 11:45 AM
what are the chances?? cutie08 Teens 3 Nov 6, 2006 06:20 PM
what are the chances Hispeace Pregnancy & New Motherhood 2 Oct 16, 2006 02:35 PM




Copyright ©2003 - 2007, Ask Me Help Desk.
All times are GMT -8. The time now is 08:41 PM.

Content Relevant URLs by vBSEO 3.0.0 RC6 © 2006, Crawlability, Inc.