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Seems like my suicidal desires disappeared as of late, a couple of problems also showed up but I'll deal with them in time. Thank you Wondergirl.

I'm not contemplating living at all.

Heck, just last night my father threatened to kill me and I taunted him and called him a coward. He was about to beat me as well and frankly I didn't really...

Mostly Heavy metal, yes.

I'm majoring in Physics.

As for what I get myself into, mostly university events, the odd soccer match and the odd concert.

Quite glad to hear that Wondergirl, you're welcome.

I've posted on these boards a fair bit about myself and my struggle with my will to live. I took a lot of your advice in hopes that it would lead me towards happiness, less chaos and possibly will to...

As the subject says, would I be qualified such a thing for having fetishes that are included in the grand bowl of BDSM?

A question evelyn1989: He was honest with you, anything he did, he did long ago. How can you feel betrayed?

Also, why do you feel upset about people not sharing your values?

Anyway, as far as...

Work out and get into shape. This seems to me like the obvious answer to this problem. If it doesn't fix it, you've got your for sure answer it's his sex drive that's low and you've got better health...

Question: Is he pushy about you participating in his kink?

If he's not, I don't see the issue, so long as he respects your limits (and doesn't cross them) you should be able to get back to a...

crys27, you're not correct in your statements at all.

Why would men watch Lesbian porn? They're not women... how can they not throw up at the sight of that?

If you want to go even deeper, are...

She's straight up lying to you.

She doesn't want to know if you're the one she wants to be with. She already knows you're not, she's trying to spare your feelings and like a typical woman...

I've already underwent penile surgery twice, once for phimosis (when I was a kid) though that was just a simple cirumcision.

Thing is, the circumcision left my penis with another problem, it...

Big penis owner here, I'd like to have a smaller more median size.

It's not fun to have your partner sore after sex. It gives you the "wow" factor but falls short afterwards. Also, when...

My guess is that he's bored with sex. I mean, 100s of partners will make you extremely bored of sex.

Ever considered asking about his kinks? Perhaps you'd find something that would peak his...

I do understand and I must admit I did giggle at the opening statement.

Perhaps I'll try that, thank you.

Sorry to bring this question up again, but it's been 3 months and I'm extremely annoyed by this issue. No, therapy hasn't helped with it one bit. Does anyone have any feedback on possible solutions?

Get a full physical from your doctor. He'll really know better than us and yourself.

Masturbation is perfectly normal and even healthy. If however, you really feel like you shouldn't do it, keep your mind occupied with a book, work, learning a new skill and so on.

You had your shot, move on.

Go no contact, stickies are at the top of this forum.

Did you ever mention any of your fantasies to him?

Perhaps he'll open up if he sees you open up.

I'm just wild guessing here however.

Re-reading this thread made realise that I forgot to mention that I hate my self-image. I can't help but think I'm extremely hideous every time I look in the mirror.

Ever considered introducing toys, discussing fantasies and playing them out if you're both interested by them?

Perhaps roleplaying?

Talk about these things with your boyfriend, it might bring a...

Going to College locally, I'm only 19 really. On a demanding Physics course.

I could get a job but it's not really easy to balance studies and a job so I'd personally preffer focusing on my...

Didn't take it as an insult, sometimes I do wish I was bi but I'm only attracted to women really.



Fair point.




Pretty sure she meant it and it was after I told my father to stop being...

My ex-girlfriend (girlfriend at the time), my best friend and family. Why not believe them?



Depression.



Nope, my situation is about the same really.

Was asked to switch when my psychiatrist learned one of his patients was related to me, for ethical reasons asked me to switch to a colleague.

She's been on vacation for a while but last time she...

Oh damn... going to retype it quickly, sorry guys.

EDIT: Again sorry, must've deleted it while editing and didn't notice, it's complete now.

Sorry about the vague topic AMHD but I have no idea of how to put it better than that.

This will be a very long post so please bear with me and if you don't want to, that's perfectly fine as I'm...

How old is he?

And it's pretty normal for some people, yes.

You can't stop it.

If he's not cheating on you though, if he's being loyal, does it really matter if he's oggling a guy instead of a woman? Most men will look regardless, so long as they keep it...

Everyone already told you what I thought you needed to hear. So I'm going with unconventional advice.

Read "The Game" by Neil Strauss. It will at minimum give you the tools to do what you want to...

Funny story, my ex did that on me once. I liked it though.

No contact. Just cut off all contact with him. There are stickies at the top of the "Relationships" forum which you can check out regarding this.

You can't keep yourself around someone who won't...

I'd tell her boyfriend if only for his sake.

If he's having sex with you and enjoying it, he's at most bissexual and not gay. This is a fact.

Secondly, is him being bissexual a problem for you?

Thirdly, what's the problem of your...

Harshness alert

So you're willingly being a backup boyfriend for this girl?

Say, if you do start a relationship with her after she and her boyfriend break up and she wants to date someone else,...

What did you lie about?

How old are you?

Simple, you measure its diameter then proceed to use the following:

2 * pi * r where r is half the diameter. This gives you the perimeter of the coin which I suppose is what you meant by length.

I can give you a bit of unorthodox advice and I wouldn't recommend following it unless you can already handle a bit of rejection and have a strong will.

Go to the mall one day, flirt and ask out...

I'd say you can at most approach him with the following premises

- God set the big bang in motion
- Considering god is all-knowing and all-powerful he could antecipate how everything would turn...

2nd visit to my psychiatrist and he seems to think that I place far too much pressure on myself and set unrealistic goals for myself as well.

He also argues that it is due to these 2 factors that...

You don't need a boyfriend to have fun. I'd actually advise you to use this summer to learn this really important lesson of life.

Maybe she just doesn't like giving it.

Maybe she's embarrassed because she doesn't know what she's doing.

Try talking to her about it, find out why she doesn't want to do it.

How old are you?

My take on it is that women want neither a-holes nor nice guys.

They want a real man, the one who is control of his own life, will stand-up for himself, is ambitious, has great self-esteem and a...

This is coming from someone who thought he beat depression once by himself and just slipped back into it.

You might be able to momentarily slip out of it but unless you address the underlying...

As far as I know they're not very common. I'll ask around for it though.

He didn't tell me to just do this or that.

Told me to try and figure out something, if I couldn't he would suggest something next week.

For now, I'm thinking of a boxing bag.

Or a big box of...