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God what to say... what would you say to a guy who spends 40 minutes to an hour and half foreplaying his wife of a year now then last all the way to give her an orgasem taking about 30 to 40 other...

God what to say... what would you say to a guy who spends 40 minutes to an hour and half foreplaying his wife of a year now then last all the way to give her an orgasem taking about 30 to 40 other...

I think its one of two... either its personal guilt she is having about something she did and you don't know about and she is taking it out on u... or it's that she wants you to keep fighting for her...

Because its so hard when both sides are hurt about the same thing... we are trying but to tell you the truth I can't heal with her because I need to put attention to what's bothering me and what I...

She did allow a lot of boys to take advantage of her kissing touching and all that but mostly not to the point of sexual intercourse as you said... we did have a good talk and that's why its so...

That's the thing... I don't know what to do or think about that part... to make that part more clear she was about 18 then and her sisters husband was about 37-38 years old... he brought her drinks...

Am I the only one that thinks sleeping with your sisters husband is off the chart big?. let alone do it in the very same bedroom her sister sleeps in? I mean a past like that is big and its just one...

Mmmm... well from what I heard there are certin things you have to do inorder to prepare your body and mind for it.. I suggest you search on the net as I can't be a help in that area... but the thing...

I know how it feels I have been there... just think about this...
How long have you been with her? Has she been out partying and having fun with other guys while your down on yourself and feeling...

Ok... see when you were harsh on him before and ignored him was he the other way round? Caring and trying to be with u?. if so you have brought this on yourself... u can't treat someone for a long...

First of all thank you all for your answers and time and your much needed help... but It is not revenge... and my resentment isn't towards her... its to what she did… its to what I haven't done......

(oh forgot to mention... the old fat ugly guy.. and her sisters husband all happened while we were meeting but not officially couples yet.. tho we were on our way)

Ok where to start… this is really so tough on me…something that I am dealing and trying to grip with so hard and I need your help… I need help so bad because I love her so much… but I am so hurt...