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Thanks guys, yeah that all makes sense.

Mouse, I had a kind of idea that it was the subconscious finally letting go of the feelings, or bringing them up for some reason. I don't miss her per se,...

Hi all,

This isn't so much a relationship questions as a psychological question. It's been a while since I've posted on here. Basically, I broke up form a three year relationship a year ago...

I was actually in a similar situation bud. I was with my ex (who facially was a stunner, but also was bigger than I the sort I normally go for) for 2.5 years altogether. For the first two years our...

You've hit the nail on the head there molecular. That's pretty much exactly what I did. Me and my ex split up because I was jealous of another guy (which I had never done previously in a 2 and a half...

Walla, you pretty much hit the nail on the head there, except for the fact that forgiving is easier said than done. By the sounds of it I was in EXACTLY the same situation as lovepolis, and I still...

Yeh I know what you mean andrew, at the minute I'm surrounded by a lot of friends, I'm always busy and my career has really taken an upturn, not to mention the odd other woman but when I'm alone (eg...

Cheers guys, yeah I bought the car and a couple of weeks later hydroplaned, hit the kurb and damaged it pretty bad. I will get it checked. Thanks again

Okey doke, thanks for the info anyway. Lesson learnt

When I took the car for a test I didn't go any faster than around 50mph, so didn't notice a problem as it only occurred at higher speeds.

Luckily, it was only me in the accident, but had there...

To give the complete story, I crashed the car from what I thought was me aquaplaning on a puddle, but in hindsight it might have been due to the steering problem. Would it be possible that the wheels...

This ones for any mechanics out there.

I recently bought a car, and when travelling at 65mph the steerin wheel starts to wobble uncontolably, and the tremoring gets more violent with increasing...

Hi all,

I recently bought a car from a Peugeot dealer in the Midlands (UK). On driving it home I noticed that the steering wheel tremored when the car was travelling at 65mph and the tremoring...

Well said JP.

The NC is easier said than done for the first week or so. After about 2 weeks it it's a hell of a lot easier, in fact in my situation I only text her a couple of times after we...

That's bs HJ, if she never loved you why the hell was she with you for 15 months? Where did you find this, if you don't mind me asking? It seems odd that she would write that unless she was...

Okay, heard from the ex for the first time in 4 months yesterday. She texted me saying we need to meet up to close a joint bank account which we had together. I have NO idea how to act with this; I...

Does anyone else's emotions come in waves? Its been... jesus... 4 months since me and the ex broke up (I didn't even realise it had been that long). I thought I was over her up until a few days ago,...

To be honest, this whole virgin business is completely ridiculous.

That's all I'm going to say because frankly it doesn't warrant any more of an answer

The next step is to take her off your friends list. I didn't and then a wall post came through on the news feed saying "hows things with you and [other guy]". I pretty much broke down and was out of...

Bummer, sometimes I wish I'd get something from my ex every once in a while but she's obviously too busy to remember me. Haven't heard anything since the breakup in March. Funny how someone can one...

F**k it, I was wrecked constantly for a good couple of weeks after the break up. It got me off my butt and out seeing mates. In my opinion they're probably the most important thing after a break up....

I was the same lola, I'd never been dumped before, apart from in stupid relationships when I was about 11. It's a real blow to your pride, I think that's the worst thing; you feel like you've been...

Its amazing how predictable this whole break up thing is. You could almost write a textbook about the feelings you go through, and the progress you make. From what I've seen this is how it goes:
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Lola, the whole closure thing is a falacy, a well known one at that. He could probably tell you he hates you and never wants to see you again, and you'll still want "closure". Correct me if I'm...

Welcome to the club Daz. Its easy come, easy go for them usually. I was even fed the steady relationship BS as well. It cusions the blow, and then triples it when you're not in contact with them...

Yeah I agree completely Jilted, sometimes the best way to end a relationship is to hate them. Though its never good to fall out with someone, it reinforces the fact that you need to break up.

By...

Im well and truly on the NC path. It'd be a cold day in hell before I even spoke to my ex, let alone got back with her haha. Than again I am technically with someone else, if that counts.

Yeh tell me about it mate, its ridiculous to think that after all the time we put into the relationship they just chuck it all away like that. I think what it is is that they are too weak and...

I know what you mean Spion about being single. Apart from the loneliness and general feeling of rejection and betrayal (fairly powerful emotions admittedly) it is nice to actually do what you want to...

f104, I can't imagine she wants to hang out with you for the purposes of getting back together, but rather to alleviate the guilt she's feeling or because she's feeling and you're the first port of...

Spion, that's actually pretty bloody insightful. Ironically the time when you're truly ready to be friends is when you don't really care about being friends. Any time before that and there's probably...

Yeah too true. Im happy for her in a way and I guess he's good for her and hope it works out, but then again I HATE her. Its an odd situation. I don't feel as bad about it as I think I should though,...

Hey guys. Sorry I haven't been on recently; its been a hectic and somewhat weird couple of weeks. This is another testiment to no contact: Been seeing this girl recently, I may have said about it in...

Day 33

Been seeing this girl recently, and have barely thought about the ex. Great girl, real funny, real hot, really into me, couldn't be much better on paper.The ex popped into my head this...

Day 29,

Feel like crap. I know what you guys were saying about ups and downs. About a week ago I would go as far as to say I was feeling "good", and kind of free to carry on with my life. The...

Aj,

Are you sure you want that closure, or is it just an excuse to contact her? You're probably right, but I'm fairly sure I used that as a last ditch attempt to talk to her just to hear her...

Big bird,

Hang in there mate, I recently saw on my ex's Facebook a wallpost from one of her friends basically implying that she was staying with some guy who I suspected she was seeing. I can see...

Is that a fact ka? I know it happened to me, so id believe it. U sound like you know form experience?

Short and sweet...

FINISH IT! Don't talk to her or see her, ever. There are MANY MANY more caring people out there, and she obviously isn't one of them. Sorry to say it, but no contact is theway...

Hey Bothered111,

When the sexual stuff started to die with my ex, everything apart from that seemed fine, but then 3 or 4 months later the relationship fell apart and we broke up, and not in the...

I just read your story Spion, and to be honest it sounds incredibly similar to mine. We were together 2.5 years and in the last month she became really close to a coworker, and basically started...

Spion_Kop

This is my opinion on this one. Make of it what you will. I think I'm going to have to take the comedy Chuff route on this one.

i find it really immature for someone who says they...

Yeh I can see what you mean about drowning the guilt. Though I don't think my ex really has what you and me might call "emotions", not that I'm bitter or anything lol. At least it seems like that....

All right guys, I'm a bit of a newbie on here. My girlfriend broke up with me toward the end of march and I think she's with another guy now. I'm not 100% on that though as I don't have any definite...

* Haha sorry, just to get this straight, I don't eat like a horse, and do in fact eat stuff other than grass and fibre based foods. The animal that was meant to be used was pig

I was wondering if anyone could me some advice on how to gain weight in the most efficient way. I eat like a horse and most of it is carbs and proteins with fruit and veg also, yet I'm still thinner...

Just to get this straight, I did have legitimate reasons for going to the house, mainly to pick up my stuff and sort old bills out etc. I think things have been going okay on the whole as far as...

Hi all,

I already had a post on here which relates to this, but I just need to see what you guys have to say about the situation.

I broke up with this girl just over a month ago after living...

I recently broke up from a two and a half year relationship with a girl I met at uni. After graduation, I got a job in the town where she lived and we decided to get a place together.

Shortly...