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I'm glad everything is working out for you, now only if I could find someone lol

OK so I broke NC yesterday and sent him an ecard to see if that would get him to talk to me. He hasn't responded, but I also didn't get a confirmation email that he received it. Guess I should go...

I totally understand how hard it is to watch a kid 24/7, and I think anyone would be mad at the person that put you in that position. I would be furious that he "likes" someone else, but at least he...

Ser- thanks for adding the additional info. I am glad you get along with the older children.

You can blame the girl for getting pregnant right away, but it takes two people to do the deed and it...

What I don't get is everyone is saying the guy and the kid is a package deal, how about the mother and the child? That is normally a package deal as well. If he is in the child's life, he's in the...

I am 21 turning 22, going through school. The guy is the father he is 21, he hasn't visited in a year.

OK so I was really proud when I did not talk to him, but I am wondering if I missed out on an opportunity. My main problem is it is over a month of NC and before that I tried to get him to talk to me...

Yea I would love to hear the mother's side of the story, but that's not possible. I personally think the mother and father should try to work it out as much as possible before they break up the...

It just seems to me that this girl is in LALA land thinking this whole situation is going to work! He created a family with someone else whether he loved her or not he did and he should do everything...

Then f-ing ask her! We don't know! We aren't mind readers! Maybe the reason she left is you can't communicate!

YOU let your pride die, I don't care about her pride. I am not talking to her I am talking to YOU!

It's a tricky situation, I really do not like chuff's advice, it seems like a lot of mind games and I hate mind games. If you truly want her back, you need to figure out what keeps causing these...

Well I just think you are in the way for a family to form.

I would say let him go and be w/ this summer fling if he was stupid enough to knock her up. He needs to be a man and own up to responsibility, which means being with the kid AND her

Then how come I don't see guys like that out my window, hmm?

I would personally would hate it and be 100% against it as well. If he is against it as well, ask him if his friends would just take him out to eat or even a bar if they want to drink. I don't know...

Wow, harsh iwho

Well at least he is around. I am in the same boat, I got pregnant a few months in the relationship, my son was born before our year anny! That is so bad. But hasn't been around since my last...

Personally I would hate the whole idea as well. He should only want to see you naked!

From what you said you sound Desperate to talk to her. No one likes to be hounded. Let her come to you.

My friend imed saying my ex called my cell and my voicemail wasn't set up. I live at home and it's late so he didn't call the house phone. My friend wanted me to call him and I said no and I'm proud!...

And yea I have zero excitement lol

Yea you are pretty right on everything

Well when he did hit me, I did try to hit him back lol .

It's hard not to think about him though because I have a lot of time on my hands, sadly I think about him everyday lol.

I think my life...

You just don't know my personality, I overuse "lol" online lol :P

Well that is why I am on here lol.

Well like I said I have a kid, so it would be a lot easier to move on if I didn't have one. I could still be at a real college and not caring about him. But I have a lot of time to "think" during the...

I know it's bad, trust me. I just don't know how to move on. You think I don't want to move on lol

Well I really don't think I could do 2 years of NC. I just don't understand how he can not care.

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I really don't want to, but I feel like I am just waiting for my ex to come back and I know I shouldn't be like this, but I don't know how to feel differently about it. We have...

Thanks everyone

Good luck with everything. I hope it all works out the way you want it to.

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Ok, so to my knowledge, my ex is not seeing anyone and hasn't since me. But considering he lives 500 miles away and have been in no contact for almost a...

Well she doesn't "hang out" w/ either me or my ex. She lives 75 miles away from me, and he lives 500 miles away from me

I wish, my ex is a guy and my friend is a girl lol.

Well I think she is with me, lol. It's just that my ex really f-ed up my life and I'm still trying to rebuild it

But she is like 90% my friend and 10% his lol

Lol if I told you how he was you would be thinking I am very fair lol

Oh don't you start lol

I know, I know

Well I think you are jumping the gun thinking she won't come back. If you two really care about each other then I think you guys will work it out. To me and my last 2 years, this really doesn't seem...

She is a mutual friend. She was friends with him first, but she is a lot closer to me now.

Well it seems like I am missing part of the picture here. One night out of the blue she said she was breaking up with you? Did she not voice her concerns before this? I think you should make a phone...

25 days no contact w/ ex. We broke up 1-2 years ago depending on timeline. My ex refuses to talk to me and my one friend told me she texted him today. If she is telling me the truth, it is all small...

chuff- I didn't say he was a great guy for what he is doing now. I'm saying how he was at the beginning, like 2 1/2 years ago now, he was fine. I was saying if he would just go back to that then I...

Because he only hit me once and towards the beginning of our relationship he was a great guy and he was my first 'serious bf' as lame as that sounds. And I opened up fully to him and I don't feel...

Thanks

He hasn't seen him since last June. He wasn't there since my last trimester. He has never been a real "father" to him. He has seen him like maybe 4-5 times since he was born.

I can't really have fun. I go to school during the day and watch my son at night. It's not like I can go out anytime I want (like he can I'm sure)

I am getting child support, he lives out of state. There are tons of things that remind me of him. If I see doritos in the food store or someone saids something about North Carolina or New Jersey...