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  1. Thank you. I already sent it. It was in my...

    Thank you. I already sent it. It was in my heart. I don't call her and talk to her really. I know that you are right about this holding you back from healing. From here on, I won't be involved...
  2. Is it okay to send ex's mother a mothers day card?

    It's a card wishing her happy moms day. It is not calling her my mom or anything like that. It is just a simple card.

    My ex AND I have been in a on and off relationship for a while and we broke...
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    No, I already have. He just doesn't love me...

    No, I already have. He just doesn't love me anymore and I'm trying to move on before it gets worst for my heart. Baby steps
  4. EVERYTHING everyone is saying is true true...

    EVERYTHING everyone is saying is true true true... leave her alone
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    Who wouldn’t be sad when the relationship that...

    Who wouldn’t be sad when the relationship that you have nurtured for so long ends?

    I think you help me understand why I am feeling so low. It makes sense now why I am moving around like I am
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    Cant get off the couch and get on with life

    For some reason I just can't seem to get myself off the couch and get on with life. Im my own boss so I don't have anything making me do anything. I want to work out. I want to start getting on with...
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    What do you drink when you go out?

    I am having a hard time figuring out what is the right drink for me when I go out or when I am meeting a date for a drink. I don't have the money to experiment with all the drinks but I kind of wish...
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    Talaniman, I am totally confused!! I posted...

    Talaniman,
    I am totally confused!! I posted about waking up in the morning to the pain of him being on my mind and SOMEHOW this other post I posted a while ago is in the place of that post... what...
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    I am sorry I have given some of you the...

    I am sorry I have given some of you the impression that I have been not talking to him for a year.

    CLARIFICATION:
    We have been off and on for about a year. We stop talking again this month...
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    Ex on my mind AS SOON as I wake up.Is that normal?

    I just wonder is this something a lot of others experience. I sleep well but then the first thing on my mind when I wake up is the ex and it makes the start of the day very hard. I cry or I come here...
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    Exbf still wants to talk to me. Is that a good idea?

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    I wanted to know if you think talking to your ex when you break up is a good idea. We did not have a bad break up. I still wanted to be with him but he doesn't...
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    Scared to Let go guy of 4 years.

    I have been dating a guy for 4 years. I will be honest... He was married when we first got together. Yeah I know... that was stupid. He told me he was going to leave and all that. We went through...
  13. Good luck. I hope it works out for you. Other...

    Good luck. I hope it works out for you. Other than that... I will keep my thoughts to myself. Not really feeling him
  14. Question: Need Your Support

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    I know how you feel. I hate to ignore my ex...

    I know how you feel. I hate to ignore my ex cause I still love him. But then I would think of all the other stuff he does and I decided to keep my distance. He needs a wake up call if this is ever...
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    Wow!! And I thought I needed to be hit in the...

    Wow!! And I thought I needed to be hit in the head with a rock... She needs a HAMMER!!
    This just shows me how love(emotional attachment) is blind. YOU just can't see!! I feel sorry for her almost...
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    Go ahead Catch Wind. Friends don't talk to...

    Go ahead Catch Wind. Friends don't talk to friends that way. Leave him alone
  17. I know this situatin all too well. You need to...

    I know this situatin all too well. You need to let it go because this is going to go on for along time and once he gets out of this.. he is going to want space and freedom to do whatever he wants. ...
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    That is what I think. I don't get it. I have...

    That is what I think.

    I don't get it. I have a couple of ex I am friend with but truthfully we were very close while we were together to to point that I can't be friends.

    One guy I can't be...
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    Are you Friends with ALL your ex gf/bf?

    Are you friend with all your ex b/g friends? My good friend is friends with her ex boyfriends and it like a game to her. She tells me how they want to get with her but she don't really want them...
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    Please listen.. this guys is a silent ticking...

    Please listen.. this guys is a silent ticking bomb. This is all a act by him. If you don't get your head out of your heart, this guys is going to rip you to shreads... I am telling you... he isn't...
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    Edited OMG please wake up... wake up......

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    OMG please wake up... wake up... wake up. Believe me.. he is already seeing someone else and he is dealing with you but he is doing his own thing. It is not about you... It is about...
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    I never thouhgt of it that way even though it...

    I never thouhgt of it that way even though it makes complete sense. It is part of the process to move on to someone else. Here we go! :(
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    Wow you guys are completely done with him. Welll...

    Wow you guys are completely done with him. Welll I did break it off but I miss him already. Oh well
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    It is one of the hardest things to do but you...

    It is one of the hardest things to do but you need to let go and find clarity for your own life. I love my ex to death too but it is not working. Take it day by day. That is it. I went out and had...
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    Thanks Liz. I just want to make sure I make...

    Thanks Liz. I just want to make sure I make myself clear. That is important to me. How would you put it? You seem to have a clear mind
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    I would be a little more polite. "I no longer...

    I would be a little more polite. "I no longer will remain on the back burner for you, I'm moving on from you. To someone that deserves me. Please do not contact me."

    You think my comment was...
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    You guys are all right. I thought about what I...

    You guys are all right. I thought about what I would say below

    Hey baby..YOUR time is up over here for me. You go ahead and keep sling di@k. Im no longer a OPTION for you. Peace!

    Did I say...
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    Ask the ex to stop sleep with her and focus on us?

    My ex and I have been off and on for 4 years now. We went out recently and I asked him was he sleeping with someone else and he say yes. I was shocked really that he was truthful.

    The next day I...
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    I total agree. That is why it is about 80 to 90%...

    I total agree. That is why it is about 80 to 90% accurate. You really have to experience the person. The zodiac is kind of a preview of them but not the whole picture
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    [/B] I can't speak for other people but it...

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    I can't speak for other people but it helps me. I don't believe everything it says about someone. But it is about 85-90% accurate. Most women find the gem man to be sweet but difficult for...
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    Yes, I believe in Zodiac signs... not Horoscopes....

    Yes, I believe in Zodiac signs... not Horoscopes. I have found them to be 90% accurate. This guy here, I did not look for but he just happen to be someone I am suppose to be good with in...
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    [/B] Yes they have to be doing something. ...

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    Yes they have to be doing something. They can't sit around. It isn't anything wrong with it. My ex is the GEM man. I'm the aqua women. This relationship was very very stimulating for me....
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    Thank you for your comment. You hit it on the...

    Thank you for your comment. You hit it on the nail.. very friendly and nice but mean cold edge as well. Only a woman who has dated a Gem would know this cause they are very nice to their friends.
    ...
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    First of all, this is a conversation about women...

    First of all, this is a conversation about women who have dated Gemini men. If you are not down with the question.. you isn't got to answer.

    2ndly, relationships are not that simple so I don't...
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    That's what Im saying. People don't understand,....

    That's what Im saying. People don't understand,. Gemini men have it BAD BAD BAD. I have dealt with him for 4 years. We will be doing great. Loving and fun. Then one day... here comes that TWIN. ...
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    I can't live with it. He stress me out. I just...

    I can't live with it. He stress me out. I just want to know has anyone date a Gemini and what was their experience
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    Women who have dated a Gemini Man

    I have dated a Gem man and it is crazy love. I love him but he is so inconsistent. First of all, he always got to be doing something. He can't sit down and chill. He always got to be going...
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    His time, his attention, his body, his voice. ...

    His time, his attention, his body, his voice. HIM HIM HIM
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    Yes I am. As stupid as this sounds, I was not...

    Yes I am. As stupid as this sounds, I was not mentally processing it that way. I am one of the people was putting love in front of treating me right. Treat me right if you love me for real. ...
  40. Question: Should I call?

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    He was sweet but he does not treat you right. It...

    He was sweet but he does not treat you right. It is a preview of things to come. No man is too busy to call a woman he is feeling. I guess his penis is not standing up screamin
    Call her. He...
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    Love does not mean ANYTHING if he don't treat you right

    I have been in a off and on relationship for 4 yrs. I realize now that I love him but I don't like the way he treats me. He is a Gemini, he is sweet but not consistent. It is like when it is good...
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    Hell you!. Get a job

    Hell you!. Get a job
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    It is great to hear a man point of view. I ask...

    It is great to hear a man point of view. I ask him not to call me even though I wish he would. I know it is stupid but that is how I feel. He doesn't have my phone number but he does have my email...
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    I just think until you are over that person it is...

    I just think until you are over that person it is best to not contact them. If don't care how they act, that's one thing but if your heart is still in it... I would stay away.
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    Did he break up with you? If he did, then leave...

    Did he break up with you? If he did, then leave it alone
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    Sounds like to me that even though you love this...

    Sounds like to me that even though you love this guy, he is not good for you. He is the rollercoaster ride. It is going to destroy you if you keep playing with this guy. He is inconsiderate. Stop...
  47. Question: NC Torture

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    Just be polite. Say hi and that is it. I would...

    Just be polite. Say hi and that is it. I would not get into a conversation. If he is waiting to see you to talk to you without any additional effort, I would not be impressed. Just be cool inside...
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    He is playing games to see if he can get you...

    He is playing games to see if he can get you back. That's all.

    First of all, he has a girlfriend. So you will be the side dish and not the
    Delicous main course you deserve to be. So forget...
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    (Group Hug) You guys are amazing. I am really...

    (Group Hug) You guys are amazing. I am really glad I am here in the time of my life. I know I would have made every single dumb mistake to mankind without you all teaching me how to let someone...
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    Excellent, excellent, excellent. I will...

    Excellent, excellent, excellent.

    I will write that down. TAke it one day at a time. That's all I can do.

    Yes I love my ex so much but this is where we are and I am working to accept it. ...
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