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Thank you all for your advice I feel stronger listening to it...
I left him... I have before though and when I do it goes through a pattern of him saying so what you're a fat stupid blah blah blah...

Oh ps... I've caught him there quite a few times when he claimed to be some where else... then claims it was to see his son so I can never get mad... or can I?

I know this is kinds longer but can you please please please read it and let me know what you think?? I'm soooo LOST!

So I have had A lot of problems with my boyfriend of 2 years... he has a child...

Not to scare you but from experience when my boyfriend stopped having sex with me, its cause he was already getting it from another girl. Might not be the case at all though.

Not to scare you but from experience when my boyfriend stopped having sex with me, its cause he was already getting it from another girl.

Sounds like she doesn't know what she wants either id just ask her what's going onand if she says I just want to be friends stop talking to her cause she's just messing with your mind

I got a phone call from a woman telling me that my boyfriend is her fiancé and they have a son together... I stopped breathing, there is no pain greater then finding out the one you love more then...

Its true... you'll be very insecure and hurt the hole time... every time he pick up his phone or steps out for a little bit or doesn't call or says he's somewhere he's not... it will always be in the...

I'd just send a simple "happy birthday" text and that's all

Why'd she break up with you ?

I do say do no contact for a while, who knows he might realize how much he loves you and will get a hold of you, and if he doesn't he oviously wasn't ready or willing to commit to you and that's not...

Thank you all

Oh andddddd I don't think I mentioned were not even together right now!! We broke up when all this happened but never got back together were still pretty much the same towards each other but he won't...

He claime its not true and she's just tryihng to mess with me cause she wants to be with him, but every time he picks up his phone or leaves or I don't talk to him I get all kinds of horable thoughts...

Acutally we were very open I told him everything and I thought he told me the same we were 10 months together before I found out and I forgot to mention that she claimed he was with her the hole time...

Yes, the trust issues are because of him, I think I'm way to trusting, then I found out he had a one night stand(a few weeks before we met) and had a kid!! And didn't tell me,I found out by the...

Is it better to be with the person you love but have a lot of trust issues with or just move on? I'm so conffused right now I love my boyfriend more then anything and everything in the world but a...

I'm in a very similar situation as you. And I find it really hard to, I get mixed singals all the time and when I came out and asked him he just said yes I love you and I want to be with you one day...

Once is bad enough never mind doing it twice (that you know of) there are good guys out there, and the one you got isn't one of them... you should really think about what you want out of your...

Wowww you really messed up... most girls will go through a lot in a relationship but as soon as a man cheats that's it, never mind finding out through an std, if you really love her and want to be...

To be honest, something doesn't seem right with me either id be worryed too, is this normal behavior for her, not talking for days? Or even trying to drop a texts on you?

I think you lost your chance and he probably thinks your some crazy woman making up excuses as to why your "stalking" him (even know you didn't do it)... I say one e-mail explaining it all is OK,...

That's awsome you have realized this... I wish I could be so strong... but I'm working on it, I guess one day you just get to the point of so much heart ach and frustration you don't care anymore,...

What!! He slept with your sister for 6 months? And your still with him, I say leave and leave now!

K I'm a little conffused about how no contact is suppsoto work, I have just a few qestions if anyone can help answer them it would be a huge help to me... Thanks!

1. does no contact mean not...

I think everyone has gone through what your feeling once in there lifes, and the ones who haven't I'm sure will one day, it's the worst feeling in the world physical pain will heal its this emotional...

I have a friend that did the same thing and even know her boyfriend was the one with the idea after she went through with it he was always jealous and thinking she was cheating on him and it just...

I believe it :)

"you'll think of me" = keith urban

Hmmm my guess would be either something up, like she might be seeing someone else or is just not ready to move forward with you OR she's just playing hard to get to get you thinking about her.

How long have you been dating for?

What's the reason for the break up? I think it all depends on that

I feel so sad and upset like my hearts been ripped out and stomped all over... me and my boy friend arnt together anymore, and its because of him hurting me and lying to me and not treating me right,...

Lol... good job, I hope it get easyer for me as well

I think she's just trying to make the best out of an aqward situation... I'd try to keep the talking to a minimal

My guess would be that she expected you to put up a fight for her but you just said "ok"

I think she's just playing head games with you be cause she want to insure you'll always be there (keep one foot in the door) I think she of course still cares for you and will regret it at some...

Thank you!!

I'm still very hurt and confused... I don't know I just hope with time the truth will come out and things will fix themselves, I can't stand to be hurt again like I was

That's really good advice, a lot of people don't realize that stuff and end up hating where they end up in there relationships

I was just thinking and wondering what everyone else thinks... I've always been a very trusting person, I'v never pry'd or looked too much into anything with relationships.(I believe if they love me...

I know I should leave him alone, this is way too much drama and it does make the way he treated me before all make sense but I'm not happy with out him it seems and I don't know if I'll find that...

I want so much to believe him, he's so convincing, but what reason would she have to lie to me?

I talked to her, she told me all that stuff... I just feel like I have no place in this he should just leave me alone so I can get over him and what he did to me, but he just keeps calling claiming...

He said he never cheated on me and wants to be with me, just not right now, am I just being strung along? I know he's going through the toughist time of his life and I want to be there for him, but...

I've never been more confused and hurt in my life, as some of you know I have been having relationship troubles for the past 4 months and me and my boyfriend ended it... I was so hurt and just trying...

I was doing OK from my breakup yesterday, realizing that I don't deserve to be treated so badly, when my ex called me/text me over and over and over till I finally answer'd only to hear how much he...

I wouldn't worry there is a big difference between modeling for a hair company and for a fashion company, in fashion modeling your out meeting everone, changing in front of people, doing promotions,...

I know a million girls including myself that would kill to meet a guy that made them and there relationship one of the top prioritys in there life, I doubt very much that this is why things didn't...

I'm so upset feels like I can't breathe