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Good point! I'm living across the country now and if she ever wants to contact me she's smart enough to figure out how. At this piont I've moved on, I don't really have time for the drama anyway :)

Hi, I'll be heading to MD when you read this so no need to start WWIII (or WWX I guess it would be now). I hope in 10 years were not still at this point, I want things to be better then this, maybe...

(if you read my post "painful ending why?" this will make sense) Well I was going to go see Spiderman 3 with some friends at a casino last night and I decided since I'm leaving the state and I...

Thanks, I decided not to contact her yet. After thinking about it there is no real benefit to me by doing so. She knows how I feel and how to contact me, so there's really no need to bring up old...

I really am moving on though, I'm literally moving to a different state across the country in a week. (not because of her, I'm going back to school) You make a good point about sounding like I...

I'm pretty happy with myself, it's been very hard at times and the temptation has almost gotten to me.

Now that it's been 2 months which I'll agree isn't all that long, I'm at a point where if I...

I do, thank you. After sleeping on it I'm not going to send it. It was my emotional side that led me to write it, and it was my logical side that said post it here instead of sending it to her. I'm...

I wrote this letter tonight, it came straight from the heart. What do you guys think?

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I was...

So I was doing good, I haven't had any communication with my Ex in over a month. Then yesterday I find this poem she recently wrote about me and I find out that she took the family to Texas for...

This was dumb on my part, I should have never typed her name in the search. I know she loves to write poems (it's just one of the many things I came to love) so I typed her name in the search and...

Thank you! And best of luck to you as well

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1. Volunteer
2. Take a class in something you're interested in
3. Learn a foreign language
4. Read a book on the best seller chart
5. Take up a sport (with...

I find myself doing this during the day, I'll go over a speech in my head that I would say to my EX if I were to talk to her, each time it's a different topic but mostly relating to the breakup. I...

I think getting out with friends is probably the fastest way to start feeling better, some friends and I started to go bowling twice a week and during that time I never think of my ex. I also...

Why did you quit drinking and gambling and start living healthy? If you did it to win her back then I would say you did it for the wrong reason. People with mental disorders often don't like taking...

Ok, I'll start the list:

1. Good Will Hunting

I think everyone here is being very blunt with you and maybe they're right. I was in a similar position not to long ago, only I'm a younger guy and she was the older married women, the only...

Thanks for your kind words!

It does, thanks!

I imagine this is a lot like trying to quit smoking; I’ll get these strong cravings to contact my ex when I know I shouldn’t even be thinking about her. I try to convince myself that she’s feeling...

I dated a tough girl once. She interned with the DEA, had "sniper vision" and was a hell of a steady shot. Tough as nails and thought the best way to spend the holidays was with a beer in one hand...

I actually have a gym membership that I've only used a couple of times, maybe I'll start doing that. I gues doing things by myself is what's so tough right now.

Since my breakup the evenings have been pretty rough, we used to be together all the time, now the evenings are very lonely, I hang out with friends and am busy during the day but the evenings are...

The relationship I was in (you can read about it in my other question) ended a month and a half ago, I'm really trying to move on, I'm not contacting her although I think about doing that all the...

It's a long story, I've posted it as a different question. She basically said a lot to lead me on but then when it came time to make a choice she betrayed me.

Do women say things they may not mean ("I love you" I've never connected with anyone like you before" etc... ) because of some kind effect sex has on them? And if so how do you decipher between what...

Thanks everyone! I feel a lot better, the other night was pretty rough for me. It's amazing how hearing from people you've never met before who share their thoughts can change your outlook on...

Guess I was just looking to get into the mindset of a married women who does this to a single guy, sorry if I came across as lashing out at you.

Dear Danielle, (like I care about hiding her name)

I'm sorry I didn't make the kind of money it would take to make you happy enough to want to stay with me. Thanks for leading me on though, I...

Say a younger single guy is seduced into having an affair with an older married women and the sex is amazing but the guy ends up falling in love with her and the women says she's in love with him and...

I guess what I'm saying is when it comes to emotions women are better at using them and understanding them then men are. Time and again we see men here on this site and even in life around us that...

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I'm 24 years old never married and had only a few relationships. I moved to Las Vegas almost 2 years ago on a pipe dream to be a professional poker player leaving behind my...