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The best thing is to move on... I did and now I'm happy, it gave me a chance to focus on "me" and now my career is taking off, I'm moving abroad! My ex wants to rekindle our relationship and now I'm...

Yes I agree, I think the only thing that'll get through to him is actions. As far as I'm concerned... I have no connection to him anymore. I do see the light at the end of the tunnel. As time passes...

Yes his expectations are unrealistic! I have always believed that Love and relationships are about taking the good with the bad. I accepted his tiny flaws because they didn't matter in comparison to...

I deleted his number so there was no caller ID so when he called I didn't know it was him.

I want him out of my life... he is cruel and selfish for the things he said and did. He just keeps...

He contacted me today, we got into an argument. He just started verbally attacking me, telling me about my personality flaws and he said he wants the person he is with "to be perfect because that is...

Today has been tough day. It's a month today since we split and It is truly sunking in now and... it hurts all over again.
This break up is a rollercoaster of emotions... that never seems to stop!...

I've definitely learnt! The emotional turmoil associated, isn't worth putting myself through! Plus I value myself too much to allow myself to ever be treated like... "just a body".

I think I have to tell him straight that what happened can never happen again! As it complicates things... I don't think we can be friends right now... too soon.

Ok well I guess I have pretty much messed it up! We slept together 2 times tonight it was the most amazing sex we've had but... now I feel sooo... ashamed and easy as I am not the type to ever sleep...

I saw him and I didn't let him control the situation... like you advised and things went interestingly. I said I was over the relationship and it threw him off.. he was surprised. He said he is still...

I've accepted that it's over.. like you advised me to do. So I either way it goes I'm not fussed anymore.
As I know deep down that I shouldn't be wasting my love and time on someone who doesn't feel...

Closure on the relationship to talk things through now we have a clear head and some reflection and better emotional stabilty. Hopefully be on good terms in the end if things go that way. I hate the...

I know what I need to do! But my mixed feelings are affecting my judgement. It's hard.. but I have to see him... to get closure at least. We respect each other enough to do things face to face.

I see what you mean by that. Do you think he is using me as an emotional crutch by contacting me as he pleases? He says he is pretty lonely and bored but says he's OK with it and that he is surprised...

I don't get it either.. he says it's been hard not having me in his life after 4yrs. Then he says when we meet up things will be different... so I can't gauge what he is thinking tbh. I've been...

So I am meeting him today... but he says I can see him on Tuesday instead as he isn't at work so he'll have more time rather than tonight which will be a rush. Do you think it's a good idea to see...

It's coming up to the end of the 2 week break and I have to speak to him Saturday and I really don't know what to say to him... I'm so confused :-s and I'm feeling very differently about the...

Your right... I didn't really want to get any false hope... and get hurt all over again in the end. That's why I thought it was best to kept the call short...

I got asked out tonight to go to a...

He called me! I don't really know what to think of the call to be honest... it was just a general chat to see how "I" was and what I got up to... I kept it short and sweet as he really wasn't...

Haha your right SentientAndroid I guess Im lucky... it could very well have been some jerry springer s***

Im sorry to hear that your going through the same thing, it's difficult isn't it......

Thank you so... much for your support. Coping would have been a lot harder without it!
I can't help but think that, If I knew that this relationship was going to end up the way it is... I honestly...

Having a bad day... feeling, hurt and angry... how can he just not call or care after 4 .5 yrs!

You say that a bit of self love is key to happiness. So I plan on concentrating on loving myself... without him.
Ive realised that when you are In a relationship you forget to love yourself and you...

Starting to feel happier today... and I actually managed to laugh! And crack a joke!. instead of feeling crappy all the time.
I'm finding that I have more time to hang out with friends and family...

I deleted it days ago... but after 4 yrs I remember it off by heart. Valentines days is almost over anyway so... I've almost made it through the day. Feeling proud of myself for achieving this!

It's so... hard to resist calling today! :-( but I know I got to leave him! I guess the fact he... hasn't called or cared about the fact we aren't doing anything, confirms that he really doesn't...

So I made it through the day without calling him... It's valentines day Tuesday... so it's going to be absolutely horrible that I'm alone during that day.

talaniman your right... even though he said he wants to see me still and do stuff as friends... if things don't work out... it will just hurt me more while he gets stronger... and moves on.
I've...

Yes I will treat it like a break up. I have no choice anyway it is all up to him in the end... should I ignore him if he calls me in 2 weeks.. as he thinks we are on a No contact break?

Swiss_Ms.B thanks I am seeing now that it wasn't necessarily 'good'... anymore.
Me wanting to fix things and make them get back to the way they were, before,is what is making me think of it as a...

Your totally right... I think my feelings are overcrowding the logical thoughts. I'll take every day 1 step at a time. I know some days, I will feel like not getting out of bed, or eating but I...

Homegirl 50 your probably right... in my head I know that what he said is sooo... harsh and selfish. Even though he wants to explore... he gets extremely agitated and jealous and doesn't like me...

He thinks that any issues and fights we have had and resolved, have eaten away at our relationship and he doesn't feel the way he did at the beginning of the relationship. He is not a very forgiving...

I think that's what I plan to do... treat it like a break up... but I do still have some hope. Or is having hope only going to cause me more pain? He seems very lost he says he doesn't know who he is...

Hi Homegirl 50, we are going on a break because he doesn't know if he wants the relationship anymore and was going to end things. He feels as though his feelings have changed and time apart will...

My boyfriend of 4.5 yrs has gone on a 2 week no contact break since yesterday and I really can't stop myself from thinking about him... and the possibility of it being over in 2 weeks. I really just...

Thank you for responding. He agreed to go on a 2 week NO CONTACT break as of today to see if time apart from our relationship will change how he feels about our relationship. As we have been together...

My boyfriend of 4 years, wants to leave me because he is not sure if he loves me anymore, and want to experience other women. We have had issues and resolved them but he says they changed the way he...