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I have suspected my hubby of cheating... I look on his phone and find texts between him and the woman I suspect... she is asking for him to call and she misses him xx all kisses back and forth (I...

How do I get over and move on from my ex

I come on here and read other peoples stories and can relate so well, I give some really good advice... I look at my situation from the outside and know what's right and wrong and who's bad for me...

Divorce is expensive so not that wasy. We live separate lives, I'm changing my name back etc as we speak.

It is a real shock today, bought out some new anger in me. I keep asking why I'm angry...

I have been doing so well lately, really getting on with things and feeling better about myself then today, driving down the road, on the off chance see him... at the girls house I suspected him of...

There is being assertive then there is chasing someone who doesn't want to be with you!

I think whatever his reasons for breaking up are doesn't really matter here, he just wanted out. It could...

The way you describe your relationship is that he is all you have in your life... trust me its NOT. He would like it that way by the sounds of it and it would be the biggest mistake and a nightmare...

By dating someone else you are playing games, trying to get him to be something he very obviously isn't. As bad as he is how would you feel if he done that to you.

If you don't want to be with him...

Her reason for texting you is to look like she cares and pull on your heart strings till you answer... unfortunately you answered her so the game she is playing she won!!

No matter what she texts...

I don't feel bad anymore, I didn't even feel that bad at the time really because I new it wasn't me or my fault... I think what I'm trying to understand is why blame me so much... why not take...

Im not young and stupid anymore!

I don't feel bad anymore for it either. It's that even now a looooooooooooong time later and he still blames me. Its made me wonder if I was wrong for telling the...

Learned so much from that relationship. For nearly a year he beat me mentally and emotionally with the blame of the situation.

I was young and stupid and let him do it because I loved him.

No he never and I wish it had been different. So much damage could have been avoided if we hadn't stayed together after. I cnat change that now though

My proble is that he blamed me for what he...

I just can't believe after being caught once he carried on doing it but then wants to say his life has been made bad for exposing it. He mostly said it was bad because I treated him badly after. BUT...

I wish, its not the same person... I have some real bad luck with guys. ONLY 2 to ever cheat on me in my 32 years so fingers crossed last 2

He actually carried on seeing us both... again my fault because I tried to make him choose!!

It was a mistake I would never make again, that's a promise to myself, no one else

Here is a question for you all...
I am going back a while...

I caught my boyf cheating, I loved him very much, I took it upon myself to make sure the other person new what was going on, I made...

Its all very good everyone giving you the advice but if you, within yourself still can't let go its falling on deaf ears.

We are all here to help and give advice where we can but only you can...

She's playing a game with your emotions. Wanting something when you think you can't have it, when you get it you don't want it. Let her be to play her games without you. Its not worth it, you won't...

She doesn't want to let you go because she knows you're a good man and doesn't want anyone else to have you.

Don't let her do it

Her problem is not wanting to let you go but not wanting you either and your letting her keep you hanging on!!

More fool you if you do

Don't mean to sound harsh, its difficult being the one being cheated on although in a sorts you are too. He is cheating on you both and I can guarantee he is feeding you both a pack of lies

Is that what he told you or the truth. For a man that cheats can you believe him??

Having just come out of a 3yr relationship I think its quite normal to ask all those questions you have, I am still doing it now, less often I think but I still do it. Unfortunately for various...

Also form the minute you found out he was married why didn't you just leave then?

Take it from someone who is or should I say has been the wife in this situation.

Deep down she will know what he is up to but cannot prove anything to actually leave him. What he is doing to you...

I do get it now. I think its very accurate.

Like I said I resigned my job!

I don't have contact with him now, this was weeks ago but it has been playing on my mind. If it is what I think then I could be looking at divorce on the grounds of adultery although he would never...

Ok, I get it now... I have had that relationship and have recently resigned!

I have a question for everyone who has read my history, I keep going over and over it in my head and will go mad if I can't get this a bit clearer?!

Why would he call me not long after we broke...

Not sure I get what romes saying. You do need to work at relationships, they have ups and downs, good days and bad days, lots of compromise. The person out there that says they don't need to work at...

I would like to think that cheaters can change there ways, that it scared them so much doing it and reparcussions after were so awful they would never dream of doing it again... its not always the...

NC is hard, your right it puts you in control but it also normally means they come running once they no they are losing you. The even harder bit is to say no and mean it. Your def right about getting...

I know the feeling well but rebound right now will make you feel worse.

I have no doubt he does think about you, probably as often as you do him but its what he's thinking that's different.
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It has been quite a while for me and I still get that tummy turn when I see his name or pic somewhere and worse still someone asks for him!! The little devil on my shoulder wants to say he's been hit...

Everyday will get easier

I think there is a part of him that cares but mostly he just won't let you go, he is OK to move on and come back knowing your still there, cake and eat it syndrome!

He cares but not enough to be...

I agree with van completely, she is trying to suck you into conversation and checking what's she's doing on Facebook is messing with your own heart.

LEave it all alone, delete her from everything...

WOW, she really is a one, she really is trying pull on your heart strings with that text. She knows hearing that from her will put you back to square one with your feelings and make you come...

I would never want anyone to have that insecurity or bad relationship. I don't no why after all this time and everything that's happened I wish it could be different and that he could change and we...

We have been broken up for a while now and haven't seen each other once, my friends are sick of me going on about him and being so down all the time.

I'm sick of going on about him!

Today is a...

But can you stay away from him and go NC or does your heart tell you soemthing different... thats where the problem starts

Even though they are that way you always live in hope they will follow it up but they never do or rarely do. It's a shame because I am still hung up on my guy even though he is no good for me in so...

That's the thing though, I kicked him out as it was that bad so why want him and it back?

I am only hurting myself but find myself most days thinking of the good times and the love that was...

OK, I have made a huge mistake today, feeling very low upset and confused about my feelings towards my ex.

I made contact with him via e mail, saying how I never wanted this for us etc and wish it...

Maybe the pressure to get married scared I'm off, he might have been thinking out loud and scared himself. Maybe once you backed off he started to come round to the idea but he might take a little...

I do agree with what everyone has put on here with their advice but I have a angle from a previous relationship I was in.

I was with soemone who smoked weed on and off throughout the day BUT he...

I can't believe what I'm reading to be honest... how can you care so little for your own emotional and mental well being?

I have just come out of a very bad relationship, me hanging on to the...

Reading your answer crazy... you must be a little crazy! You are still waiting on her and what she does next. You need to let it go and mean it. Not contacting her to see what she does next is you...

I have only had time to read half of the posts on here and that took along time in itself!!

I hate to tell you this but the worst thing about someone who is beautiful that KNOWS they are...