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Cat

Thank you and I am. That person was everywhere. Even after the breakfup when he was just talking to a friend, he still was everywhere. I'm glad I put the update up. I have a tendency after...

Ok everyone... I wanted to give you all a quick update. You were all so right.



Shortly after I starated the thread, I bocked him on fb. I can't block him on my phone because my phone...

Cat,

If you would have heard him go on and on about how much he cared, and seen how he was always right by my side, you wouldn't think I was going too fast. He took me to see his work once, on...

His past has issues with everything it seems and when I ask for things that at this point should come naturally. He has been really selfish and at first I thought it just was in the bedroom but...

Hi.This is embarrassing really. I am 44 and my boyfriend is 45. We have been together for 7 months. He has no trouble gettinig an erection. He can maintain an erection for quite a while, so there...

I meant the support group for me.

I am looking up info for Alanon

That's not what I am confused about. I don't know what to do or what to say. I can't believe I didn't see this before.

I'm so confused right now... I don't know what to think.

I was but I am seriously scared right now.

Kit how very sad. I wish I knew more to say. What a tradgedy.

J-9

I am so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what you all must have went through. There is no excuse for drinking and driving... no matter how short the distance... period.

jmjoseph

I don't know if he drinks every day. I live out of state unfortunately. I do know he tells me he drinks when he has to work the next day because it helps him to sleep. He says he...

Wondergirl

A functioning alcoholic, I have to read about that one. He generally is quick tempered but I don't know if that has anything to do with him as a person or related to alcohol.

I was always surprised he said alcohol helped him sleep. Alcohol makes me hyper, not tired.

Sorry Twinkie

Does it seem as if he is leaning more towards alcoholism or just some really bad judgement in regards to alcohol?

I agree, he was stupid when he got behind that wheel. It angers me that he would ever take that chance. I have seen him go 5 days without a drink and does fall asleep but when he works he tells me...

No I don't like him that way. I was just stating my observations and stating things he has told me.

He is from Texas and they do have a zero tolerance law. I always told him that he needed to...

Hi everyone


I have been wondering about my boyfriend and drinking. I know that no one can say for sure if he is an alcoholic, but I thought maybe someone may have more insight that myself.
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Van

Ok.

We ended up doing a little texting and he told me he still had the pictures but I could have them back. He told me he didn't reply to my requests before because he "luvs" them and he didn't want to...

Someone recently told me that I was being unfair to the ex by getting upset that he didn't call till 6 pm. And that by calling so late, he wasn't blowing me off...

I was being unfair.

My dear friend just got his second dui. I believe the first one was within ten years, possibly 7 years ago. I believe the first one happened in his early 40's and this newest happened days ago and...

Actually I was wrong. The arrest was made by the San Antonio police department. I'm still looking... but I did send them an email.

Chuck,

I know that... and wish I could do that but I am way out of state.

Twinkie

I went to Bexar County's website (San Antonio) and the only thing I could find on searching was a "magistrate's arrest record search" but nothing came up... at all.

There were no...

Hello

I was wondering if DUI's were public information? It is not for myself. I have the case number, but am wondering how to get information online about this case. I have searched, but no...

I don't believe his dad hit his mom, but could be wrong. It just always struck me odd. It would take something HUGE for me to believe my son, if I had one, could do something like that, but I would...

Just an update and a question.

Update... he's lost his marbles.

After that birthday email he went onto a forum that we are both a part of and started a birthday thread for me there. He later...

Weird is right.

And now it gets... I don't know what it gets...

But that forum that I was on that I left... well I got the strength to go back on yesterday and am OK.

So not only did I get an email from him...

So today I get an email from him...

Janet

Happy Birthday

Jim

I'm surprised he even remembered.

Thank you 2nd.

Van I already told her...

No we don't. He sucks dog turds.

Cat I know and it's such a low blow. It's down right cruel. Thank you for the birthday wishes.

Van I know it's the right thing to do, but I miss him so much. I hope this passes. Thank you for...

It's going OK. I'm still bummed that I have no answers, but it's better than before. Tomorrow is my birthday, so I am a bit bummed.

I still can't believe that he didn't tell me a word about...

I sent them to him to make a point. Not so much to him, but for myself.

In regards to the pictures, I would have been more than OK with a message from him.. or from him asking a friend to tell me...

Well this is my little update. I blocked him on myspace and Facebook. We both share a love for Superman and it's a major hobby so we are both on a forum where we have made many friends.

He...

You did well Van and you have been doing it well. Hold your head up high and know you have some people who are mighty proud of you... people who can relate to how hard this all can be.

Stay...

So... what's going on thse days?

I guess. This guy is 50 years old too boot.

Both... and I need to understand why.

My heart still breaks

Van you are remarkable!

You just do it. You will drive yourself crazy trying to analyze why she is the way she is... it will not make any sense. No one knows what she is because all they have is your side of things.

If...

I agree. Don't reply to the texts, don't be the nice guy here. She is expecting you to be the nice guy and is throwing you bits and pieces here and there to make sure she stays on your mind.

You...

It doesn't matter what she thinks, it matters what you think. What she thinks is invalid and distorted. YOU know why you would delete her, not her... and THAT'S all that matters. Let her think...

They will trip you up every time. That's what drives us crazy. Their behavior and their words don't match and we don't know what to believe. Believe in her actions twoards you.

Van I'm sorry you had to deal with that...

Remember though, they are never happy. They want people to THINK they have it all together and they even fool themselves into for a while but when that...

Crazy I am very intuitive, but only with other people darn my luck. I don't know, I can just feel your hurt. I am very empathetic. I know what you are going through because I have been there. I...