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I have question. If you do the following you are GUARANTEED to have a girl you are dating love you (assuming you pass the initial looks and career part). Agree or Disagree?
1. You make a point to go to spots you like with or without her, and reject one of her favorite spots every now and then. Do not hang out with her friends unless she will hang out with yours.
2. Never act jealous. No matter what. Girls can't get over the fact you aren't jealous. I have heard countless stories of girls cheating on jealous guys. They always say jealousy drove them to it.
3. Cancel the 3rd date with a vague response "something came up, no time to talk". Then cancel every 6th or so date.
4. No emotion if she dumps you or picks a fight. The key to avoiding conflict is quiet, agree with it (fine do what you want), and avoidance. They want to test you to see if you are weak enough to argue with their ridiculous problems, etc.
5. Don’t tell her your secrets.
6. Turn down her second offer for sexual favors. They will remember you forever. Its tough.
7. When she demands something unreasonable, NEVER give in to her. Popcorn? Picking her up food when she doesn't want to? Don't do it. Major weakness.
Summary: Respect/challenge keeps interest and prevents cheating.
I learned all of these from my ex complaining/admiring her new boyfriend and from other sites on the net. The ONLY problem with this message board is the POSSIBILITY we are being too trustful of FATE. Maybe a game or two in the beginning is worth the pay off. Maybe, just maybe we can learn from both perspectives ("nice", "not nice" on the situation.)
I have question. If you do the following you are GUARANTEED to have a girl you are dating love you (assuming you pass the initial looks and career part). Agree or Disagree?
1. You make a point to go to spots you like with or without her, and reject one of her favorite spots every now and then. Do not hang out with her friends unless she will hang out with yours.
2. Never act jealous. No matter what. Girls can't get over the fact you aren't jealous. I have heard countless stories of girls cheating on jealous guys. They always say jealousy drove them to it.
3. Cancel the 3rd date with a vague response "something came up, no time to talk". Then cancel every 6th or so date.
4. No emotion if she dumps you or picks a fight. The key to avoiding conflict is quiet, agree with it (fine do what you want), and avoidance. They want to test you to see if you are weak enough to argue with their ridiculous problems, etc.
5. Don’t tell her your secrets.
6. Turn down her second offer for sexual favors. They will remember you forever. Its tough.
7. When she demands something unreasonable, NEVER give in to her. Popcorn? Picking her up food when she doesn't want to? Don't do it. Major weakness.
Summary: Respect/challenge keeps interest and prevents cheating.
I learned all of these from my ex complaining/admiring her new boyfriend and from other sites on the net. The ONLY problem with this message board is the POSSIBILITY we are being too trustful of FATE. Maybe a game or two in the beginning is worth the pay off. Maybe, just maybe we can learn from both perspectives ("nice", "not nice" on the situation.)
I can't detect whether or not you're being sarcastic with some of these. This seems like an outline of how to be manipulative rather than how to get a girl to love you. Pardon me for thinking that falling in love is a bit more complicated and personal.
I learned all of these ... from other sites on the net.
The things you've been reading have the goal of generating attraction to get you laid. You want things that are "GUARANTEED to have a girl you are dating love you". Don't confuse the two. There are no guarantees. Every day is a new opportunity to blow it. Whatever worked in your favor last week may not this week. Just be yourself, requires less thought and effort long term.
I disagree with all of those as general rules. One or more may apply to a certain person or situation but in general I think any of those would get you dumped.
oh also like to say i think thats all more impt to girls who get alot of attention from guys already. youhave to really play it right with them or else youd just be any other guy to them