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    Aug 4, 2009, 05:54 PM
    Relationship abruptly ends
    I meet this gal two months ago and everything has been going great I thought.I met her parents took her and her kid too dinner and swimming and spent a day with her parents on the river.she had her heart broke before,and has been in some terrible relationships. She tells me I'm amazing,she's wants to be with me,she likes the way I treat and respect her!! but tells me about two days ago she is confussed and don't know why? She doesn't know how she feels about us and don't know why she feels this way? And I don't deserve a girl that feels the way she does!! because I'm so amazing and such a terrific person.what the hell am I suppose to feel after everything seemed to be great and now she has mixed emotions?
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    Aug 4, 2009, 08:47 PM
    Step back. Do the NC. Keep busy. She needs to sort herself out. I think she has commitment issues.take care.
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    Aug 5, 2009, 03:30 PM

    She is overwhelmed, and scared. Slow down, and let her get her breath, and catch up. Your still dating aren't you?
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    Aug 5, 2009, 08:43 PM

    I sometimes get like that! For real and it's hard to explain. I mean I can't help it and I am sure she is the same way. If you give her some space and make it a challenge for her then it would be a lot better. Right now you are too good to be true and well she sounds a lot like me where she is attracted to the bad boy. This is my take on it... I am sure many will say no way but that is how I am and she sounds a lot like me when I start getting close to someone whom I think is too good for me and I have not had to make any effort to get that person. It's almost like omg he actually likes me for me! I don't have to do anything to impress him.. he likes me any way that I am! Does any of this make sense? I hope I am helping you.
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