relationship

barfield28560 · #1 Nov 16, 2005, 07:23 AM

Me and my boyfriend just broke up, he told me for the last two months it's been nothing but arguements and he feels that mybe we should step back and be friends and if it's meant for us to get back together then it will happen. He told me abfter talking for a some time he would call back but didn't, it's been three days I have not heard from him. I want to call him but at the same time I don't want to look like I'm press or trying to stress him. What should I do?

Wildcat21 · Nov 16, 2005, 08:54 AM

Wait it out. Give him space.

3 days is not lonf at all.

AND figure out why you were arguing all the time. This isn't good. If you're together it should be easy - if you're arguing all the something major is wrong and you shouldn't be together anyway.

Is it you? Do YOU need to change? WHo starts the fights?

No presure here.

Right - work on other things in life....work, school, hang with friends, hobbies, WORKOUT, hang with your family.

DON'T call him.

fredg · Nov 17, 2005, 04:37 AM

Hi,
3 days? That's only 72 hours!
Give it a couple of months, at least.
Your ex is being very honest with you, or so it seems anyway, about wanting to find out if you two have a relationship at all. He wants to find out if he loves you, or if something else might be better for you both.
You might look at why you two argue so much. For now, I wouldn't call him, email him; don't contact him at all.
Meantime, meet some new boys, new people. Talking with others is the best way to start thinking of other things for a little while.
Breaking up is not pleasant, and takes awhile to "get back on your feet". If he eventually decides to call you, wants to get back together, you might not even want it to happen by then.
Give it some time. Maybe it will turn out with him coming back to you.