Well I no longer see the guy that I previosly was seeing. I do talk to him and still want to see him, but know he is bad for me. Like I stated he is into group sex,swinging,shemales,men etc, not just me. He is also very secretive -don't know where he lives, birthday, family things, he is a cop and I a nurse. My friends think he has a deep secret or dark side to himI would like him to just be with me, but he seems to blow me off when he can just be with me. That bothers me, I want him and only him. He doesn't seem to want to get close or passionate with me. Is it because he is so addicted to just sex and can't be in a relationship. Can a sex addicted person be in a relationship with another? I just feel maybe I should stick with him and see where this goes(although my couselor says to stay away and so do my friends) So should I stick it out and he possibly can be in a relationship with me? Help me!!!

Jesushelper76

Packer04. You need to pack up this relationship and let it go.
Being a cop as well, lots of stress. That job in itself will cause many problems but on top of that you say this person is not just into you. Into other relationships as well. If you want to be the only one, you will need to find somebody else. I know this may be hard but you need to do this for yourself.

Your counselor is right, and your friends are right.

The thing is the counselor, your friends and myself can not force you to make this type of decision.

You need to make it yourself. Best of luck, by the way.

Joe

talaniman

Help yourself, as he will not change, so kick him to the curb.