A recent Break up.

if-only6 · #1 Dec 22, 2006, 10:46 AM

I recently broke up with my boyfriend because he lied to me and did stuff behind my back. Some people are telling me things.. And hes telling me different things. I dont know what to believe.. But all i know is that i love him so much and i know he loves me. I want him to admit to me that he did a mistake. Because he's upset about the breakup and thinks im over exaggerating. I know he did things. But i dont want to believe it. Its only been a couple of days since the breakup. Should i wait and see what he'll say, or should i move on. I really love this guy, and he loves me. But what he did was shocking. He means the world to me. I dont know what to do, Help me please.

starsbooty · Dec 22, 2006, 10:49 AM

1st, how old are you 2? 2nd what exactly did he lie about?

Geoffersonairplane · Dec 22, 2006, 10:51 AM

Hi There,

Sorry to hear about what has happened.

If you don't mind me asking, what are the things you believe he did to you behind your back and on what are you basing your evidence on?

if-only6 · Dec 22, 2006, 10:55 AM

well, i do belive i over reacted but what he did was go to this girls house and lied when i asked him, and he flirted with this other chick when i asked him not to talk to her anyway. im 18 hes 19

if-only6 · Dec 22, 2006, 11:01 AM

well because shes the suductive type. and he knows it. Plus she tried to break us up before. I dont mind him having female friends i do know that.

starsbooty · Dec 22, 2006, 11:04 AM

he lied because he knew he was wrong and scared, and every body flirts, flirting shouldnt be an issue WITH ANYBODY, SEDUCTIVE OT NOT, if you love him, do whatever is right for you, because what any of us tells you doesnt even compare to any of the things you and your boyfriend talk about, if you feel you were wrong tell him, and if you feel he was wrong tell him, then its up to you to decide if you can trust him and make it work!

harryleather · Dec 22, 2006, 11:39 AM

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Originally Posted by if-only6

well because shes the suductive type. and he knows it. Plus she tried to break us up before. I dont mind him having female friends i do know that.

If you can't trust him to act the proper way, what's the point in being with him? I know a guy will tell you that "she came on to me and I couldn't help it." Eh, that's a bunch of BS. If you can't trust him, let him go. Then you can concentrate on you.



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