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    Allforthebroken Posts: 28, Reputation: 2
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    Aug 13, 2008, 08:27 PM
    Is it really Forever?
    Sorry if this is a bit long,
    My boyfriend and I have been dating for a while now, I am 13 and he is 15... him and I are pretty serious with each other. I really am in love... he tells me all the time that he will never leave me, he always talks about when we are going to have sex (I don't mind this) and when we will get married... I know I shouldn't doubt the only person I trust but I do... should I believe him? I know we're young, so please don't answer with "young relationships never last"
    Thank you so much
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    Aug 13, 2008, 09:56 PM
    I won't say that young relationships, puppy love, and high school or even middleschool sweethearts don't last. Not at all. Why doubt him? Has he done anything to break your trust? If not, assume what he is saying is true. Are his words backed up by matching actions?
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    Aug 13, 2008, 10:12 PM
    If you really loved each other you would wait, because you don't want to mess up each others lives. If you can't wait a few years, then its not love. Its lust, and thats not forever.

    You may not be too young to be in love, but your to young to know love from lust, so wait, and you'll find out in a safer way.

    Just so you know from a former 15 year old guy, Hormones make us say darn near anything to satisfy our lust, that feels like love.
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    Aug 13, 2008, 10:30 PM
    Hi there.
    I'm kristine . I see where your coming from and
    I understand I've had the exact problem... well not really a problem it just made me curious.And no one should say that "young relationships don't last"
    Because I found my soulmate and I am only 16 ,see my friends even said its impossible
    But I know we are soulmates and I'm so glad he found me.But if he is saying are we going to have sex don't say yes ,well that all is up too you ,but I would recommend not to give in no matter how tempting it is or not.If he really likes you he would wait ,see if he's really anxious to want sex .Than really I do not know weather he is really wanting to stay with you forever and till you two are married . But no guy should say lets stay together and we will get married or so-forth because well he does not know weather there is going to be different changes because he is only 15 he has allot to look forward too.
    But if you truly believe he may be the one or he is trustworthy than wait a while and see where it all goes .But usually guys can be stubborn and leave because he is not getting the satisfaction that he wants.So think about all the stuff I said and well if it helps at all
    Well than your welcome .

    All the best to you:)
    ;kristine

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