Well I am currently dating someone younger then me. And while we have been dating, we have fool around alot. I though I was in love with my girlfriend. I really dont know how explain this. I just think maybe i am a bad boyfriend, or something. Anyway i wanna know what people think what im doing wrong and etc.

My girlfriend and I have been dating for 4 months. Not to long ago she gave me her virginity (only 2 months ago.. yea kind of hard to believe). I didnt not force her or even implied it to her (also hard to believe... but i was innocent). Around the first time we did it. I notice that she been lieing to me and etc. Well I ask many many fact of what her ex-boyfriends did with her (ooo just guess how dumb i feel for asking that). There were so many things that she did with her ex's and that really really bother me. Also lead to the point where i though she wasnt a virgin. No matter what she keep crying and telling me she was.. but after what she told me it was nearly impossible to believe in her. Also she has a friend (a guy friend). She tells me that he n her are like best friends. Yet back in the day her n him use to make out n stuff while she was dating other guys. Now she tells me she wont cheat on me.. yet she goes and do that with him. Well i told my girlfriend stay away from him and etc.. Well not to long ago we got into a fight and she told me that she was going hang with that guy. I was so mad that i almost became violent (she told me on the phone). After i ask her not to she said "look if you dont wanna come with me then im going hang with him then". I was wishing I could go, but couldnt because of my uncle. Anyway she end up going with out me and i heard that he and she was very.. friendly and that bother me. Though i believe she didnt do anything with him. I am very upset that she even talk to him. Now i know im very possessive, but how would you react your girlfriend still being friend with a person she use to cheat on her last boyfriend and the one before that 2.

Well her past bothers me so much and her being friend with that guy bother me. Now I solve the guy problem but how can i get over the fact that her past bother me?

mckenzie134

The past is the past. live for the future. You only worry about what happens from the time you met the girl what was in her past isof no concern too you, If you keep acting this way you will soon be in her past!
Or let it go. Have fun stop worrying in a years time yo wont be thinking bout her past if you still got her.relax

You have her now so show her a good time

talaniman

Such a waste of time and emotions worrying about a partners past, instead of enjoying getting to know her now. AAAHHHHH youth is wasted on the young.