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i was wondering if the love i feel for this boy is actually true love. the thing is that i'm only 16 and i have fallen deep for this 17year old boy. we went out for a couple of months and we still talk. he recently told me he still thinks about me and his friend tells me he still likes me. However he has had two other short relationships but he went out with one of the girls because he wanted to get over me quickly but he still seems intrested in me. i also want to do other things with this boy that i havent done yet but i dont know if i should have sex with him because he aint my boyfriend. the thing is i really care for this boy and our realationship has been on and off for the past year. i am really confused and upset i dont know whether i should try and get back with my ex or should i leave him alone even though he could be my true love. Although you might think i am too young to know what love is, i have never felt this way about anyone else, his voice alone makes me happy and his smile makes me smile. could i please have some good advice on this subject. thanks xx
Your true love would feel the same way you do, and would be with you no matter what. Strong feelings and attractions are often mistaken for love, but after time it fades. Give yourself time and you will find true love, and know that those physical attractions are not forever.
Why would you do things with this boy that you haven't done yet when he doesn't LOVE you? Just because he's interested does not mean he loves you. Just because you have intense feelings for him does not mean you love him. Love takes time. Love grows as you both grow. Love is respectful, caring and slow. It does not place demands, it is not 'on and off'. Do not mistake your feelings for true love. You will meet many boys and men who will bring a smile to your face, who will tempt you physically, who will make you happy. Love is FAR more than that.
I answered on your other post..
My feeling is still the same. Time will tell. If you two have been friends and have done a lot of things together for a year, chances are that you might wind up together for good - but later on the the future. NOT just right now. You both should be working toward your academic futures and deciding on a career. During this time you should also be enjoying your youth and sharing ideas and ideals with friends. It is my opinion that it is tooooo early to think about a world with just the two of you in it.
U shouldn't have sex with this guy! If you two keep going on and off then ur relationship is not going to anywhere! I have been in the same thing! Just be friends with the guy and go from there! Maybe right now is not the perfect time to have a relationship with this guy right now!
You are not too young to know what love is. I'm only 14 dating a 16 year old, and we have a great relationship. Only you can know if he is your true love or not. If you feel happy, no matter what when you are around him, and your world falls apart when he says good-bye, chances are you are CRAZY about him. If you can talk to him about anything, and you are comfortable about him taking your whole self... body, heart, and soul then you have found your or what seems to by your true love. The most important thing is that he returns your feelings and they are genuine. Not something he is saying to make you stay with him. Like I said, only you can decide who your "someone just for you" is. Make sure before you convince yourself though, if you don't the consequences could be... not good.
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