Question about my relationship? We are just friends.But..

Wildcat21 · Apr 13, 2005, 12:32 PM

If she smiles and touches you - your in! Treat her the way your doing it. But, go for the kiss soon - next time your hanging out and you touchy-feely - go for the kiss. Friend is where it starts. But, you definitely have something more then friends.

Make her laugh - and lsiten to her - usually woman are so chatty that it doesn't matter about the silence.

Woman don't always have to be entertained by a whity guy.

1. Ask her about her day
2. Ask her about her family
3. School
4. What college she plans to go to
5. About her friends
6. Latest movies
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Imax · Apr 13, 2005, 03:14 PM

Great thanks. She told me she wants to be boyfriend and girlfriend further down the road how long should I give it wild ? And what should I do until then just keep doing what I'm doing ?

Wildcat21 · Apr 13, 2005, 09:17 PM

That's perfect - don't sweat it. For the first couple months, most woman just want to be friends anyway. Don't worry about it and just enjoy her.

DON'T spen all your time with her. Don't chase her away. Have other activities.

Try for that first kiss.

sweety · Apr 15, 2005, 05:54 PM

Its good for you that she likes you too. Give her time and be and act normal as you were doing before she told you this, let time decide what happens next.

Imax · Apr 15, 2005, 08:47 PM

Sometimes I wonder if she is playing me or not. She says she we are friends but yet we hold each other and we are deffinately not boyfriend and girlfriend. But I ask her if friends hold each other and she says they don't. So then what are we close friends or in between. It just seems like she doesn't know what we are. What should I think because I am confused about the whole thing too.

Wildcat21 · Apr 17, 2005, 10:03 AM

You're doing fine. Don't rush it. Play her a little bit. Don't ask for clarification anymore - you might chase her away.

Imax · Apr 17, 2005, 05:24 PM

Ok thanks! I just wish me and her talked more . She is so shy and sometimes I don't know how she feels about me. I mean we hold each other and she wraps her arms around me but is this really a sign that can tell if she likes me or do I need something more ?

LostLoveWithoutACause · Apr 19, 2005, 06:13 AM

Wold she be hanging around with you in the first place if you were a boring person? I mean, are you being yourself around her or are you acting quite because you don't know what to say to her in fear that you will look silly in front of her? Instead of hanging around at the mall, suggest you do sumfin els like a movie or a piizza or a walk in some kind of park? You never know, maybe she's being silent because she wants to tell you she likes you more than a mate?any way good luck mate!

Imax · Apr 19, 2005, 03:10 PM

We have walked around parks too., And one thing is she likes me to hold her but yet I'm still confused . Your right though she probably wouldn't hang out with me if she thought I was boring. As for how I act. I act like myself and sometime I'm quiet and so is she we are both shy and sometimes I don't know what to say

. Sometimes since she is so quiet I wonder if she likes me or not. What do you think ? Do you think she likes me a lot because like I said she likes it when I hold her or is that a normal for a girl to want from her guy friend ?

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