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Old Aug 22, 2009, 02:46 AM
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Public embarassment

K so it seems that in public my boyfriend likes to embarass or belittle me.. examples would be say he offers to pay for dinner or pay for Something rather then infront of the cashier 90% of the time he'll make a comment like alwayssss making me pay, or something about me emptying his wallet, you know? but he's the one who has offered so I tried the no thank you, I've got it and he gets all weird and sometimes upset that I won't let him pay. If we argue it's on facebook in 5 minutes and, yes, he messages his mom about it and pretty much all of his friends. He also talks to his ex girlfriend about me, negative things, which ofcourse I stumbled across once when I used his computer one day. Another thing would be he has a new apartment and he used to live with his parents, ofcourse, his mom was the type to do all the cleaning, all his laundry, keep his room clean, never ask him to do a Thing around the house she did it all.. now he wants me to clean his apartment for 20 bucks, one hour each week.. I agreed at first but am having second thoughts because he'll call me infront of coworkers to be like so are you clenaing today.. not to have a conversation but to sort of let them know that he's paying his girlfriend to clean his house.. feel like it's a put down I mean I did that when I lived in Ontario because I couldn't find any employment and he told everyone I was his Maid. What do I do? why does he do that? I've tried asking him to stop with the cashier thing and he says he doesn't realize it.. but still keeps it up.

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this man or rather mommys boy is disrespectful rude and not a loving caring partner.he s manipulating you and he s trying to lower your selfesteem.you re not a doormat-you deserve a man who treats you right.leave this waste of time and find your own happiness.
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get a new guy. he does not respect you. before you do so, you need to ask yourself why you have allowed this to occur. (so you don't let it happen again)

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The cashier thing is probably more about humor, but the rest like cleaning his apartment is something to stop. If he doesn't respond favorably, quit (being his maid).

He can only do what you let him get away with.
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