Aight so I just talked to my girlfriend today and there really isn't any issues I just feel like lately there was some lack of communication. Maybe not lack of communication maybe just she thought he could handle being friends but obviously she wrong, so it escalated last night. He doesn't get it. And we are in long distance so it makes it hard. She said she didn't want to sleep at her girlfriends house last night so she drove home and got back real late and late night in the morning her ex boyfriend called 3 times and she didn't answer the first 2 and the 3rd she said just stop calling go away. He then came over and banged on her door. She hid in her basement. She said he knew her parents weren't there because they have mutual friends and I knew that but she had a small party at her house and he showed up. She didn't invite me and I understand she can't just kick him out but I feel like this is on her. These other people are real cool and great friends for her but he needs to go away. I am not jealous he has no chance, she doesn't want him nor want him around.

She said initially she tried to be nice and be like we can be friends I am seeing someone else it is over. But that obviously has not worked. I told her she needs to be more aggressive and forceful about it or I will step in. I know she gets annoyed and I feel like she thinks there is nothing she can do because she loves her friends and it isn't fare not see the other 15 because of one idiot. I agree with that and fine but somehow he needs to not be around.