Is it possible to Love some1 but Like some1 else?

DAISY1990 · #1 May 24, 2007, 05:34 PM

Im so confused I've been with my boyfriend for 2 years now I really love him he's the sweetest, nicest guy ever. We do argue now and then for dumb stuff but then again all relationships are like that. My boyfriend is way older than me he's 5 years older than me but I really don't care about the age for me its just a number. he lives in the valley and I live in Culver City. There's so much distance in between but I love him. I see him once a week not very often. and everything was perfect! Until i started noticing this one guy he started talking to me and told me how he felt about me he said he really really liked me and wanted me to be his girlfriend and to leave my boyfriend for him because he has much more to offer me because he's around my age and that he wants to show me on stuff im missing out on since when i got with my boyfriend i stopped going out with my friends stopped partying and just stopped doing all those fun things teenagers do, he told me to please give him a chance and now im really confused. i LOVE my boyfriend but LIKE this one other guy.. what should i do? im so confused i love my boyfriend because he's been my 1st love my 1st long relationship and he's been so sweet to me..but then this other guy seems so nice n sweet and reminds me of my boyfriend. im so lost and confused what should i do please i need somebody's opinion im dying inside.

xiaocake · May 24, 2007, 05:45 PM

First of all, you must be a good and cute girl to win love of both. I understand now you are in confusion. If one wants happiness through love, the sincerity from each other is necessary. There must be some reasons you like the latter one. Love is motive when it is not mature. I don't think it would be cruel for the former one if you find someone better. Just base the happiness on seriousness. You have your free right to seek the one special and perfect for you. The one losing you could understand later.
I wish you good luck!

Skell · May 24, 2007, 05:50 PM

Sounds to me as though your not ready to have either of them.

to me having this strong interest in someone else doesnt indicate the type of love i would want from a partner. It is ok to find people attractive and desirable as long as it doesnt affect your relationship with you love. And this is clearly doing so.



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