I am dating this girl named Lisa Marie. We have been dating for about 1 1/2 months. We have done the whole meet the parents thing. Her mom loves me and mine loves her. I love her. How do I know what she is ready for. I wish I could show her what it feels like to be fingered and all that. Let me know. Women only! Guys say I'm a perv.

ThreadTrend

answer my question please

letmeno

I don't think that her mom would be too in love with you if she knew that you had plans on "fingering" her daughter. From the way that it sounds, you and Lisa are still very young. I hardly think that after only 6 weeks of dating that you are in love. I would say continue to date Lisa for a while and get closer to her, get to know her a whole lot more better and pretty soon, she herself will be comfortable enough to let you know what she wants. If she is not ready on the account that she may feel that she is too young, then you have to respect that. It is not good for a lady to feel pressured.

jeffatl

Thanks letmeno, for making me chuckle a bit. I have to agree with you on this one too. dont push her to do anything, Im sure when she is ready to try new things, you will know. Give it some time, get to know eachother better, and keep it in your pants buddy. It sounds like you and this girl "like" eachother alot, so just play it cool. Girls dont like it when guys are too forward with the whole "messing arround" thing. Im sure you are a young guy, so just have fun with her for now. Let her control the pace of the whole physical aspect or you will probably scare her off.

Katiy

She sounds very young. Why do you have to show her this? Why not find someone on your own level?

CaptainForest

Call it a hunce..but my gut says there some form of age difference b/w u 2.

Thre has to be if your friends think ur being a perv..or u have weird friends...

I think knowing her age would help in determining if shes ready.

But, why not just talk to her about it? Ask her questions, find out what shes done sexually or in terms of masturbation before.

talaniman

if your afraid the guys will think you a perv then u might be how old are you and this girl?????

ThreadTrend

I am 17 and she is 16. I think that the first post was the most helpful. Thank you for your help. I think that is all i need. You guys are great

fredg

Hi,
I also agree with the first post. Don't rush into anything. Sounds like you and she might have a good relationship going here.
Things will happen when both of you are ready for them to happen, and will come naturally. Give it some time, and don't rush it.
I do wish you the best, and hope your relationship is a good one for you both.

talaniman

I suspect alot of lust in your heart.If you like her as much as you say then be honest with her and let her control her own pace.if its meant for you you'll get it so go slow and be a gentlemen.Her call not yours.