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I have this new girlfriend.. that I really, really like (more than any other).
She seems really nice... she was wearing everything of the "playboy" (earrings, bag, shirt, etc, etc) brand name / merchandise. I thought it was cute and a one time thing.
Untill I saw her bedroom..It was 100% playboy, from the walls, to her lamps, clocks, many playboy bunny signs everywear, computer desktop wallpaper was a playboy bunny logo.. well.. you name it she had it (she even had a tiny playboy bunny tattoo on her back area).
Now im wondering... does this mean she is a slut/*****?/ a gold-digger (like all of hugh hefners playmates)???? does she want to be a playmate??? is she a sex freak????
I am thinking this because back in Italy, only the prostitutes and women who are like 'sluts' are fans of playboy stuff (but, i've got big plans for my current girlfriend but also dont want to shatter them if i make one silly mistake by assuming something just by one small stupid logo).
I'd only like answers from women (straight women) please.. and what it means if a girl is an insane playboy fan?
Many women have all sorts of collections, all sorts of obsections. many come, many go.
My wife when we meet was poohbear crazy, clothes, necklace, ear rights, shoes, posters, stuffed animals ( no tattoo)
Why not merely ask her, or perhaps date her for a while and find out.
Many years ago I worked with several clothing designer, as a man working in that field, everyone first assumed I was gay ( and this was in teh 70's) when it was not politically correct to be so ** and of course I was not, but it was commom in the clothing industry at that time.
Well anyway working with models, sewing machines, patterns, I had a love for sewing, I had sewing machines everywhere, small ones on the shelfs and so on. If you came into my home, there were cloth and patterns everywhere,
Related to that, we designed most of the Bunny clothing, garters, and all other sort of items they also sold in thier clubs. First professional bunnies are not sluts, they are very high paid professional models.
And having known many of the bunnies from those years, they are not gold diggers in general, yes they are using thier looks to make money but they are merely selling thier product, thier looks the best way they can.
Now perhaps she is a want a be model or just has a desire for more adventure in here life.
And finally even if others do this for this reason or that reason, it does not mean this lady is doing it for the same reason.
If she is a wonder lady and you life her, and she likes you, why care.
If you really want to know, ask her, or just wait and see how it goes.
Well women do love bunny rabbits. They are rather cuddly. How does she act? Does she act like shes that sort of person? If shes all up on other men all the time then you better watch out. If she acts like she has respect for herself and for you then no worries.
So what? Ok, she likes playboy....and? Maybe it is a little "over the top" but should this really be a MAJOR problem??? I dont think so. Im sure you have collected things over the years as a kid and what not, she just LIKES playboy....alot. I dont think that makes her a slut in any way, and we surely cant make a statement like that based on a collection. I say if it is that big of a problem, then look for another girl. Get over yourself bud, its not the end of the world. How old is she??
Woman love collecting things...some like shoes, some like purses, she likes the logo and anything that has the logo she purchases. I think its how she acts and behaves like....does she eye other men? Ask her about the collection, how or why she started collecting if it makes you uncertain.
Spyyder, just because your girlfriend choose to wear the Playboy logo doesn't mean she's a slut or a lesbian. You cant judge a book by its cover. Your girlfriend probably has the logos because it's popular and fashionable. It's really not a big deal if she flaunts it, some people like to collect things and it just so happens that she collects Playboy merchandises. There's nothing wrong with that, but if you have a problem with her bunny logos, then you should move on. As a matter of fact, I'm wearing my Playboy bunny ears right now.
Hey, its not about what she likes or wears that makes her.... its about who she is. And u claim to luuuuuuuuvvvvvvvvvvvvvv her alot then u should know better. You must never live your life for others, only for yourself. If you feel @#%^*)(^%%$>>>>L ,,..O...V3%^^E and ur heart skips a beat when ur with her then I think its definitely worth giving a chance!!!
Hi, Spyyder,
Since you said she is a new girlfriend, then please give it some time. Building a relationship takes time, and then you will know much more about her. Many people have hobbies, of collecting different things. Just because she likes Playboy is nothing new.
I do wish you the best of luck, and please get to know her better, before you decide whether to move on or not.
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