My partner wants sex.

ali18ninja · Jul 16, 2012, 09:51 PM

Well first, don't have sex just because he wants to. You have to be certain that you want to. If you love him enough and see yourself with him for a long long time and you two have had a great relationship then you should as long as you're completely comfortable. Now if it's your first time it's natural to be afraid. Sex is something very intimate and scary at first. It'll be a little painful but before you have sex, tell your partner that you're a virgin if he doesn't already know. Talk to him during sex as well. Tell him what hurts, when to stop, what feels good, etc.

Fr_Chuck · Jul 16, 2012, 09:53 PM

yes you may never forget, the pain to start with , the first time which is special. and since you most likely are not on birth control, perhaps a baby to raise for next 18 plus years.

ScottGem · Jul 17, 2012, 03:40 AM

NO ONE should engage in sexual intercourse unless they are fully prepared to have a child.

How old are you? How old is your boyfriend? What would your parents say if they knew you were going to his house with his parents away?

Cool girl 54 · Jul 17, 2012, 08:38 AM

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Originally Posted by ScottGem

NO ONE should engage in sexual intercourse unless they are fully prepared to have a child.

How old are you? How old is your boyfriend? What would your parents say if they knew you were going to his house
with his parents away?

Well my answer is I'm 17 my bf. is 19 my parents already know that I'm going to his. House so that's wasn't a good advice!!

ScottGem · Jul 17, 2012, 09:48 AM

The part about your parents wasn't advice it was a question. So your parents know you are going to his house AND that his parents will be away and they trust him enough to allow this? I suspect you are not telling the whole story here.

But the bottom line is you need to set the limits. You tell him that you are not ready to have a child so you aren't ready for sex. And if that doesn't suit him then maybe you shouldn't come over. Then you need to stick to your guns and keep your clothes on and your legs closed.

Cool girl 54 · Jul 17, 2012, 03:23 PM

Today my bf had sex with me for two hours.then he went to the shower first,I was looking at the pics on his phone and then there was a text message from his old gf......

She sent him a pc of her being naked!!!then I looked at all the stuff they both sent to each other it was his s pics and her boobs!!!i ws realy mad but I was afrade to loose him......then I went home crying not mowing what to do...when he called I never took the phone cuz I didn't know what to do!!

Can u plz help me!?!?!?!?
im realy afrade to loose him and im realy forgiving

Wondergirl · Jul 17, 2012, 03:33 PM

He first has to ask for forgiveness. He is leading a double life. Are you willing to allow that to happen? And if you confront him, he will become more secretive.

Alty · Jul 17, 2012, 03:40 PM

You can either accept that he's sleeping around, continue to say nothing and let him have both you and this other girl, or you can speak up.

Why are you afraid of losing him? He doesn't seem worth keeping.

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Looks like it's too late, and now you found out he's cheating too.

ScottGem · Jul 17, 2012, 04:42 PM

I've merged your two threads.

You silly, silly girl. You came here for advice and got very good advice. What did you do, you ignored it and now see where its gotten you. You already lost him. All he was interested in was getting into your pants. Now that he's made his conquest he's going to move on.

Show some self respect and dump this loser. He is not worth it. You also need to understand why you have so little self esteem. And let's pray this incident doesn't result in a baby.

My partner wants sex.

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