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Old Apr 4, 2007, 01:04 PM
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Paradox between one sided loves
I got a problem...
I never got a bf b4...
now i love a guy
for one yr
but he loves sb.. although i know that for 3 months ago...
i cant forget him
however...
he is not a hot guy, but so intelligent ,smart and jus nice looking..most imp of all he has leadership which i adore...

while i m interested in him..
one of the hottest guys from another class is interesting in me
but i never noticed as well as he never showed it to me too ..since i have never been in relationships,,

even he waited me in MRT sometimes seems so honest to me...
but when the schools are about to close, i know that he is interesting in me from his friend
for real,since i m so tired from waiting my love, i realli wanna get a relationship to get revenge from my love, so i wanna go out with sb who is hot but no intelligent and who i dun interested so much..

so what shall i do?
i m in paradox...
however.. i dun wanna hear my love with another girl...
i want him badly

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Old Apr 4, 2007, 02:26 PM   #2  
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hmm this is tuff. talking to this guy couldnt hurt ? and if it doesnt work out there is always that hott guy <3
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Old Apr 5, 2007, 01:05 AM   #3  
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nope...
but the problem is that i dun like his manner...
cos i m afraid that Hot guy will play me...
since i was played by that guy i love... i m so so afraid to ve a relationship now...
may b i m in psycho since i ve never got a bf
but i dunno how to do.....?
how to clear the suspecious?
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Old Apr 5, 2007, 01:49 AM   #4  
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Forget the guy whos already in the relationship. Hes taken and not yours.

and if you are not interested in the other one forget him also.

Eventually you will find the right one!

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Old Apr 5, 2007, 03:58 AM   #5  
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since i m so tired from waiting my love, i realli wanna get a relationship to get revenge from my love, so i wanna go out with sb who is hot but no intelligent and who i dun interested so much..
Very bad idea, to use some one to get back at some one else. VERY BAD IDEA!!! Your so called love is doing nothing to you but living his own life, so accept it and stop obsessing over what he does. Some day you'll find that guy your looking for, but now you don't sound ready for an honest relationship.
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Very bad idea, to use some one to get back at some one else. VERY BAD IDEA!!! Your so called love is doing nothing to you but living his own life, so accept it and stop obsessing over what he does. Some day you'll find that guy your looking for, but now you don't sound ready for an honest relationship.

thnc for the reply....
i deciede not to use tat guy who love me ....
but ah..
it is very hard to forget my love
isn't it?
i dun know how to forget ..so i now pretend to busy with my studies...
but cant...
since my mind is always with him....
I m crazy! ! help me...
U know ...it is strange that i jus so angry on him but not on that girl.... i m crazy !!!
it is about 6 months from now (since b4 his relationship), i try to forget him
but... ah.,,, cant
what i want is that.... i can relate with him as friends before...

but it is so hard... any ans?
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but it is so hard... any ans?
Focus on your life and find happiness in the things you do and let time heal you. It will take work and patients but eventually you will get over him. Sorry there are no magic or easy answers just a lot of hard work.
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Focus on your life and find happiness in the things you do and let time heal you. It will take work and patients but eventually you will get over him. Sorry there are no magic or easy answers just a lot of hard work.

I understand i will try..... btw i dun understand his mannars cos now he try to connect with me again .... may b some problems with his gf?
i dun understand him...
more his mannars make me look him down ....
i realli think that he is so disgusting now !
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Or maybe he thinks your easy or is he a player, HMMMM! You don't need that kind of crap! Sometimes what we think is gold ain't.
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Or maybe he thinks your easy or is he a player, HMMMM! You don't need that kind of crap! Sometimes what we think is gold ain't.
OMG OMG
so shameful.........i m so cheap?
:'(
ok
i wont join him again :I
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