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well this stories a bit long, me and my ex broke up ovr a year ago mutually, you see we were spending too much time together and both our parents didnt approve of this, when we broke up it was horrible, i lost weight, and was depressed and heart broken, after 8months we started talking again, we are now in contact but in different relationships, i still love her and it hurts to talk to her, We cant get back even thou we both wud love nothing but that, but it confuses and hurts everybody around us, friends,family, and bf and gfs, we tryed talking bout it but we blank it out every time, i hate living like this. any suggestions??
shud i just forget about her and move on? shud i risk everything and everyone for her?
well this stories a bit long, me and my ex broke up ovr a year ago mutually, you see we were spending too much time together and both our parents didnt approve of this, when we broke up it was horrible, i lost weight, and was depressed and heart broken, after 8months we started talking again, we are now in contact but in different relationships, i still love her and it hurts to talk to her, We cant get back even thou we both wud love nothing but that, but it confuses and hurts everybody around us, friends,family, and bf and gfs, we tryed talking bout it but we blank it out every time, i hate living like this. any suggestions??
shud i just forget about her and move on? shud i risk everything and everyone for her?
i know just how u feel ....... i would try to start it again and this time take things more slowly ..... u know him or her more than u know anyone else so just try again i know u might be afraid to get hurt but throughout ur life ur gunna get hurt so just take the chance and if it doesnt work out after the second time just say goodbye and try to forget u might find someone better lol
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well this stories a bit long,
LOL. This wasn't that long. You should see some of the books I write.
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me and my ex broke up ovr a year ago mutually, you see we were spending too much time together and both our parents didnt approve of this, when we broke up it was horrible,
I'm a little confused. The parents didn't approve of all the time together or you being together as a couple.
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i lost weight, and was depressed and heart broken, after 8months we started talking again, we are now in contact but in different relationships, i still love her and it hurts to talk to her, We cant get back even thou we both wud love nothing but that, but it confuses and hurts everybody around us, friends,family, and bf and gfs, we tryed talking bout it but we blank it out every time, i hate living like this. any suggestions??
shud i just forget about her and move on? shud i risk everything and everyone for her?
Actually I'm hoping you can give us a little more detail. But my first suggestion is to break up with your current girlfriend. Your not being fair to her by being emotionally attached to you ex. Also you need to really straighten out some of these feelings before you get involved with another woman.
well this stories a bit long, me and my ex broke up ovr a year ago mutually, you see we were spending too much time together and both our parents didnt approve of this, when we broke up it was horrible, i lost weight, and was depressed and heart broken, after 8months we started talking again, we are now in contact but in different relationships, i still love her and it hurts to talk to her, We cant get back even thou we both wud love nothing but that, but it confuses and hurts everybody around us, friends,family, and bf and gfs, we tryed talking bout it but we blank it out every time, i hate living like this. any suggestions??
shud i just forget about her and move on? shud i risk everything and everyone for her?
if u both truly love eachother then u shud do wutever it takes to be together, real loves hard ta come by
I think you might know the answer but are looking for validation. The fact it hurts when you talk and sometimes come up blank are signs you're moving on. you both have other relationships and you feel torn between the 2. whether or not it's bothering other people like family members, your main concern is dealing with how youre feeling at the moment.
your heart doesn't know the difference between culture or family objections. it'll take time to heal. the first time you talked, the old feelings you had for each other came flooding back like a tidal wave. your concern shoulod be with your partner. how does she feel about you talking with an ex? how much are you invested in your cuurent relationship?
we on the whole may say it doesn't bother us if our partners talk to an ex, but deep down we're worried and scared
the ball is really in your court. no one can tell you whats right or whats wrong. but personally, If I were in a relationship and I loved my partner, I would focus on that.
my ex is in the past where he belongs and my future is with the one I care about now.
I hope this helps.
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