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Old Jun 18, 2007, 11:07 PM
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if you really really trust your partner, however find out through his email that he is registered with an online dating website....
how would u feel?
and why would he do that??

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Old Jun 18, 2007, 11:15 PM   #2  
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HEY! don't jump to conclusions now, there is tons of SPAM on the internet! Who knows, maybe he was registered before he even met you, talk to him about it. If he loves you he will tell you the truth of the matter.
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Old Jun 18, 2007, 11:18 PM   #3  
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No its not spam!
I just know it!
You can identify Spam, and this isnt, he genuinly registered with online dating.

I understand the date he registered was when we was arguing, however why would he do it!
What were his intentions...

Yes i can ask him but he will ask how i found out!
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I wouldnt be impressed either!
But u cant just ask him now... coz he will ask u, why were u lookin through my email? right?
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Old Jun 18, 2007, 11:46 PM   #5  
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I'm not sure what his intentions were, maybe he did it just because he was mad.
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Old Jun 18, 2007, 11:58 PM   #6  
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Well I'd be pissed first off but I'd try not to jump to conclusions. Not too long ago as my guy was checking his email I saw something from "Adultfriendfinder" which is a site where people hook up and have sex basically (and different types) and I flipped. He also got a message from HelloDarling.com and he was a member on FaceBook.com and some other sites. I freaked out. I found each profile and tried to get information but he hadn't signed on in a long time and it turned out he'd been a part of these sites since before we got together and the profile on adultfriendfinder was a bit of a hoax as the only real picture he used was of his face but the body and "penis" picture were not his own. Although he has a nice body I just think he was more in it for talking and stuff. He also tried saying that he is Jap/Chinese when he's Chinese/Vietnamese. the profile was used years ago so. But I'd ask him about it. I'd say confront him. Hopefully his situation will be the same and it was simply a dating site before you.

I met my guy over the net (as odd as it sounds) and now I'm living with him and pregnant with my first child in the best relationship I've been in. He quit using those sites even though his profile still existed on them. Maybe that's the same issue with your guy! =) Let's hope so.
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well i did something naughty...

after i saw this, i registered also...
found him, and mailed him, i used a weird name, so he will never know its me....

what to do now>???
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Good luck! Hope you get some information. I've done the same thing in the past >D lmao but no luck. Especially because my guy no longer uses those sites. But I check from time to time. I never go, assuming that he simply isn't capable of cheating. I'm sure he won't he's very faithful but. Hopefully you'll have nothing to worry about!
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Thing is i know for fact he hasnt been registered before he meet me. On his email i saw an email from this site saying welcome bla bla - it was begining of June!

So im not a bad person for doing so????
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Old Jun 19, 2007, 12:25 AM   #10  
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Hell no you're not a bad person. Why the hell should your guy be registering for a dating site? If my boyfriend had done the same I'd say "If I really don't satisfy you that you have to look at an online dating site for another girl, you're better off without me because I don't deserve to be cheated on". and see what he says or does. And I hope you'll get information from that site. See if he messages you back or something. That's messed up >O

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